Vendors whose first reponse is not very professional??

posted 3 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Barbiestylez:  Yeah, most of our vendors have been like this, but we’re also going off the beaten path with vendors…for example, the events manager at the restaurant we’re hosting our reception brunch at is AMAZING and the reason we chose this place, but he could be a million times better at communicating.  His emails tend to be one or two sentences long and from the get go he’s referred to me as “girl” and FI and me together as “y’all”.  But he’s just a very personable kind of guy so I brush it off.

I get what you meant about it bothering you enough to not want to book.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Barbiestylez:  I would move on. She sounds off-putting.

I submitted a web  form to a company regarding my macaron tower, their response was “phone office”.

Thats it.

They didn’t even provide me a number, nor answer one single question I asked. Needless to say I moved on.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’d skip her. Who wants that kind of attitude? EVER?

There were a few vendors who responded to me unprofessionally – even one venue who said they’d call the cops on us if our guests got too loud in her initial email (?!?)
It made me SO MAD, I told her that was an unacceptable thing to say to someone who was just inquiring that that we’d be looking elsewhere. Like, what the hell???

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@Barbiestylez:  This is supposed to be an exciting time in your life and while others may not share the same enthusiasm I’m sure the least you expect is great customer service. It could be something as simple as she doesnt communicate well via email/written communication but imagine if she was the same in person? My first point of contact with someone, especially if they are the representative of a business, will dictate whether I use them or not.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Barbiestylez:  Maybe it’s just because I used to work at a salon, but that response wouldn’t really bother me.

One of the most talented stylists I’ve ever seen was so focused during her work that she came off as completely militant/ brusque. She didn’t have time to dole out fluffy pleasantries – but she could work wonders on hair 🙂

Post # 8
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523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Delete the email and skip her, find a different vendor 

Post # 9
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2878 posts
Sugar bee

@Barbiestylez:  It happens with vendors, and even professors at university. I used to take 30 minutes to write this polite, well-written email, and each time I was taken aback by such answers, and I used to unterpret it like I was bothering them or something. Turns out they receive dozens of emails and requests per day, they probably don’t mean to be abrupt, but they have so many people to reply to and sometimes they reply fast. 

I’d let this slip, really, it’s no biggie, unless she has that kind of attitude in real life as well.

 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

@Barbiestylez:  I would let her know you’re looking elsewhere. Vendors who respond like that need to understand that it is the way they are treating people that are pushing clients away, not just that you happened to find someone else. But that you deliberately avoided her because of her unprofessional response.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

That’s not untypical of a wedding vendor.  Rude yes, but she might just be busy and overwhelmed (not really an excuse, but this seems to often be the case).  I’d look for other vendors you like that treat you better, but if they really have the best product, I might look into it.  I’d probably try to stop in person to get a feel for it and book the trial (or send a friend you trust to do it if you don’t have the time).  If I got a cold treatment in person too, I think I would move on even if I like their work.  

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Barbiestylez:  I’d definitely skip her. Not only does she sound unprofessional, but presumptuous as well. Maybe you ::gasp:: won’t like her work and won’t want to book her for your wedding?

I wouldn’t say that it was an unprofessional first response, but when I ordered our cake, we ordered in advance – ordered mid-August for a November wedding. I had a couple follow-up questions closer to the date regarding the cake topper and wanted to confirm that everything was still on. So notice my horror when the bakery responded as if I was ordering for the first time! I was like, “Um… no… we already ordered… and paid you in full… Did you not get that?” Thankfully there were no issues, but I was freaking out thinking the bakery forgot about us.

I just use these experiences as a learning tool for how I would NEVER run my business.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Meh, for a MUA/hair stylist, I’m more worried about their skillz than their personalities. For someone like the photographer, though, we were looking for someone we really liked and connected with.

Post # 14
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272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’ve run into this so much! I’ve been finding a lot of vendors have the mindset that they are doing me a favour, rather then realizing that I’m paying them for a service. I’ve gotten firm with if I don’t like attitude right off the bat, I look for a different one. On the bright side, when you find one who has excellent customer service (they really do exist!) they tend to make you feel comfortable and at ease about everything. It’s your wedding, don’t settle for crappy attitudes 🙂

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

If a vendor responded like that then I would definitely be put off. Although, I think it would depend on the type of vendor. For example, if the florist responded like that I might not care. I wouldn’t really be working with her and her personality doesn’t really have an affect on her work. But, being that it is your MUA, I would probably not hire her. Not only do you actually have to be around this person for an extended period, but you have to be around them on the morning of your wedding! 

For what it’s worth, I think all of the vendors have responded to me with a “congratulations!” first and then any follow up questions. I understand that the MUA might not be able to move forward until she knows the date of the event but she can do that in a nicer way, or she can put that as info you have to include when you contact her. 

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Barbiestylez:  Go with your first instinct!  If you want a different level of service, go with someone that will give you that.  There are so many wedding professionals, definitely keep looking and try to find someone you click with.  I also would be put off by that response. 

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