Post # 1
I am suppose to get married to a wonderful man next year.
Today I am suppose to go and speak to the priest that will marry me and my Fiance. My Fiance is unable to make it due to having to work. So my parents were suppose to go with me to Church to see the Priest.
My Dad’s Birthday is tomorrow and we are planning to have a big party for him. But now my parents have decided not to come with me to speak to the Priest. I am really upset b/c now I have to go by myself, which sucks. I really want my parents there with me for emotional support and I seriously feel like I have just been put on the back burner. I am also worried about what the Priest will think of me if both my parents and my Fiance aren’t with me. I don’t want to make a bad impression, I so upset and hurt right now. I feel so alone.
Post # 3
Can you show up without your Fiance to visit priest? Maybe it’s best to reschedule until Fiance can go.
Post # 4
Aww do you have a friend, sister that could go with you? Could you postpone it so your fiance can come?
Post # 5
Aww I’m sorry; have you told your parents how it makes you feel? Maybe if they knew it was upsetting you so much they would decide to go. I don’t think their putting you on the backburner intentionally though.
Post # 6
Why don’t you just reschedule? It’s not your parents responsibility to go with you to meet with your priest. If you’re old enough to get married then you’re old enough to do these things on your own.
Post # 7
If her parents originally told her they would accompany her I can see that it would upset her that they cancel. I don’t think she’s implying that they are obligated to go with her.
Post # 8
I haven’t told my parents that they have upset me b/c I didn’t find out about this until about 11:00pm. And I was a little in shock that they weren’t going to come with me. My Priest always meets with the the Bride and groom seperately. My Fiance has already went to talk with the priest and now it was my turn and the bride usually brings her parents with her. Especially when the are sponsering the couple! Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!!
Post # 9
Well, it’s your wedding, not theirs, so I don’t understand why they would be going in the first place?
Post # 10
I don’t understand why your parents need to go with you if he wants to meet with you separately from Fiance. WOuld it be nice for their support? Sure I guess I see that but you need to but your big girl pants on and go alone or reschedule.