(Closed) Vent about Engagement Party!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
134 posts
Blushing bee

Time for your Fiance to man up and call up his Aunty to tell her to uninvite her son and grandson.  I can’t believe the nerve of some people!

Post # 5
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would just make it clear that this behavior will not be tolerated at the wedding…whether it causes problems or not.

Post # 6
2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@cuddlz88:  Whoever is  invited to a pre-wedding party automatically should get a wedding invite…So unless you want all these people there on your big day, you need to speak up.

Post # 8
134 posts
Blushing bee

I’m not trying to be insensitive.  So what if it’s WW3? Really, what are they going to do? Stamp and storm around? Take away your toys? Send you to your room?  If you’re old enough to get married; you’re old enough to stand up for yourself. 

It’s pretty simple – Aunty overstepped her boundaries by inviting her son & grandson. The consequence of that is now she must uninvite them.  Or your Fiance will have to. #1 they weren’t invited. #2 it’s not an appropriate environment for a child.  (Could you imagine the liability for your Future Mother-In-Law should this uninvited child fall into the pool?)

If you don’t nip this in the bud now, you WILL have univited children and random guests at your wedding.


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