- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I am beyond upset with my mother. I am so beyond upset that I even want to go as far as saying that I won’t be speaking to her for awhile after the wedding.
I get a message from her today saying that she will be attending by rehearsal at the church but she won’t be going to the dinner. Okay 1) My FMIL is paying for the dinner, and she already paid for her plate 2) She is my mother, how can she not be there?
This is another one of her stunts where she wants to beg and plead that I want her to be there. Why do you have to feel wanted?
So I called her, and she played the victim card. Its always about her, and how I am so mean to her. Let me begin by explaning, my mother is the type of person that will push you to a point where you have to hang up the phone on her, or you have to tell her enough is enough. I called my sister and she flipped out saying that our mother is acting like an ass.
I am also upset because when she acts like this, it makes me miss my dad more. (My father passed when I was 13). Its 2 weeks for the wedding, and my rehearsal is next Sat. 9/7. I don’t need this bullshit!
She is supposed to be walking me down the aisle, and I don’t want her too. SHe doesn’t deserve it. All she does is put me down. Nothing I do is ever good enough. And all she keeps saying is “I can’t wait for this wedding to be over so I don’t have to talk to you” Gee, thanks MOM! Oh, and the best part is, she isn’t excited for my wedding BUT she cannot stop talking about her BF’s daughters wedding and how nice its going to be, etc etc. Again, Gee, thanks MOM!
THen she wonders why I run to my FMIL and Aunt for support, bc she is always so negative.
I am just venting. I really just can’t take her childish antics anymore. I am mad bc she is getting me mad 2 weeks before the big day, thats all. If she doesn’t come to the dinner, she will look like the jerk, not me.