(Closed) VENT – FMIL, FSIL, FCIL…

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Kill ’em with kindness.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Vodka in your waterbottle?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Or sedatives in their water bottles?

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

LOL Goldilocks! Just don’t put vodka AND sedatives, that would be a disaster!

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

LOL Goldilocks! Just don’t put vodka AND sedatives, that would be a disaster!

Post # 8
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Helper bee

Be super sweet and act like nothing wrong. You are the bigger person.

You can do it!!! 🙂

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh my goodness, you girls are hilarious. But on a more serious note, I would just say to go ahead and suck it up and make the most of it. If you start making changes on that now, they might become really offended, and I don’t think you want that kind of drama and stress right now.

Good luck!

Post # 10
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Busy bee

I would also have to suggest intoxication or sedation. Just dont let them make you feel bad, they will probably feel the need to attack. They’ll get over it and understand that it’s your wedding…

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

oh goodness good luck! just try to stay positive dont let their negative attuitude (because you know they will have on) get to you!

Whatever they say ignore it and dont let it upset you!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think I would take some ativan myself – and see if I could get a hold of some roofies for the rest of them!!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Doncha just looooove people that invite themselves? Man, the cojones some people have! So tacky. I wouldn’t dream of doing something like that.

Sadly, you will have to suck it up, but in your head compose a really fun bitchy post for later on here, so we can all tell you what a class act you are. 🙂

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

When I saw your title I saw FCIL – I did not think cousin but I thought you were calling someone a not very nice word LOL

However, that word (aka “see you next Tuesday” to Charlotte from SATC) is the only true swear word left – it’s the only one people react too – I love it!

Sorry for thread stealing there!

Hopefully it works out and maybe this will be the involvement that the girls were looking for!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@futuremrsmartin

LMAO a Future “See You Next Tuesday” In-Law, thats hilarious! (and apparently, in this case, true)

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee

@FutureMrs.Martin… I’m so so glad I’m not the only one who thought that.

 

@SEVEN…. just grin and bear it.  At least it’s just shopping for a dress for his mom and not YOUR dress.  It sounds like you and FSIL have a bad relationship but most of the time I wouldn’t think it would be weird that the groom’s sister would want to be involved in this activity.  I really enjoyed helping my mom pick out her dress for my brother’s wedding.

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