Vent – high school style drama. Why not to go snooping!

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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295 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Sorry that your male-friend put you in the middle like that. I don’t see why he can’t just tell “Jane” why he’s acting that way towards her. That is completely unfair to her. There’s no reason to exclude Jane. She did nothing to deserve it. It’s not your problem, or Jane’s. It’s the GF’s problem for not trusting her BF, and her own in security. But, I think you already know that. 🙂 

I wouldn’t worry or stress too much about it. It’s really not your problem. But, I see how it affects your friendships. Hopefully your male-friend can be open with Jane, and tell his GF that her behavior is immature, and unacceptable.

Post # 5
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757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

haha! I’m sorry, this type of thing makes me laugh!!! You’re totally right- he needs to talk to her.  A friend of mine has a girlfriend like this.  She is very jealous of me because I had kissed her now-boyfriend – once – completely drunk – and two years before she even met him.  I have absolutely zero romantic feelings for this friend (he is also my MOH’s brother), and we hang out often.  I try to make it better by just going completely out of my way to be nice to her, and include her, but it just seems like there’s no hope.  Oh well!

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