vent i guess – adult female friendship…

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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1987 posts
Buzzing bee

chica95110:  Yeah, I’d be irritated with that, too. It sounds like she wants to be your friend when it’s convenient for her. I mean, maybe she was going through something then and now her life is more together now, but that’s still no excuse for not returning contact, especially as far as the business quote went.

If it were me, I would not pursue a friendship with her. That ship has sailed.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wait four months to respond to her email?  JK.

I don’t think this sounds like it’s going to be the best friendship, and I’d probably pass.  It seems very dramatic to me, and I try to cut the drama from my life as it’s happening.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: Lombardi's On the bay

I wouldnt respond to it.  In the end it would just lead to being aggrivated anyway.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Yeah I wouldnt reply, if she made no attempt to contact you for her buisness’s needs when she promies you qoute then I doubt she’d make a good friend in the long run.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

chica95110:  Maybe she had something going on in her life that she needed to deal with and wasn’t ready to take on a new friendship. Perhaps she wants to explain herself in person. I say respond, what do you have to lose at this point? If she does anything shady or flaky again, dump her for good.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

haha I guess I’m a sucker for punishment. id give her another chance! 

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ignore her?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

She might have been going through something in her personal life that prevented her from being social with you.  The best thing is for you to NOT make any assumptions as to why she ignored you the way she did, because unless you get the truth from her own mouth, your unwarranted assumptions will only hurt you. And remember that saying, “Making assumptions about other people only makes an “ass” out of you.”

If I were you, I’d move on and make friends with other people while politely declining her invitation.  Maybe if you continue to run into each other at other events, you can slowly build your friendship then.  But at this point I wouldn’t go out of my way to hang-out with her.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

chica95110:  Probably best to just ignore her email. I’m the type of person who would want to ask what her deal was if I ended up going out with her again, which could lead to awkwardness. Unless you plan on going to this meet up group and might run into her there in the future, you have nothing to lose by just letting it drop.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

You guys might not be a good friendship “fit.”  Your expectations of friendship seem to be worlds apart.

Post # 12
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Newbee

Female drama… *walks out of room to go eat cake*

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