Vent: MOH has NOT made travel plans yet (SIGH)

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
30312 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@waitingwonderland:  Aww man…hmm, could you reserve the room for her first?  Is this a situation where she can pay for the room once she gets there?

Post # 4
Member
1244 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Can she afford the room?

I’m with your FI. She’s probably not looking forward to paying for the room as another expense so she’s dragging her feet. The more you text about it the more she’s just getting annoyed about it, so let it go. Maybe she’s hoping she can crash in someone else’s room or she’ll just figure it out “later”…it’s her problem to deal with. 

Post # 5
Member
3007 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I will say this much. We had a GM who did not reserve a hotel room, make prior plans and said he was driving home. He proceeded to get waisted and try to crash in a BMs room. They dropped him back at our hotel, called DH’s GM/Best Man who only then let him crash on the SECOND bed they had (which they knew he had no where to stay- dont get me started on that)…. Make sure she has something lined up ahead of time. I hated hearing about it the next morning and subsequent days. Hell I’m still hearing about it and it just pisses me off the he didn’t line anything up ahead of time, BIL/SIL didn’t open their room for him until another BM dropped him off and the BMs that dropped him off had tried getting him his own room at their hotel which was sold out. At the age of 30+ its time to act like an adult and be responsible about what you’re doing the night after a wedding. It would be different if he hadn’t pulled the same stunt at BIL/SIL’s wedding last year and I had to upgrade our room with no payment from him.

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