(Closed) Vent on how people THINK they have etiquette but DON’T!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1872 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Most people who lob “poor etiquette” barbs are the pot calling the kettle black.

 

Post # 4
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2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Ick. I totally agree and I hate this. People get up in your face saying “you’re not inviting (enter person or people here), how could you? Well if they’re not coming then neither am I!” I’ve learned that this isn’t much of a threat, but I digress. Anyway, it’s like….you’re holding your response card hostage unless I do what you want, and I’M out of line and selfish?

Post # 5
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ugh, that is just immature behavior on everyone’s part but yours.  If your MIL wanted the 25 cousins to come, then she should’ve given you money, end of story.  You are paying for it, you can dictate who comes and who does not.  I hate when people act like that.  And who sends a save the date with “and kids” to parents with a married child?  How ridiculous.  They have a lot to learn about etiquette for sure! 

Post # 6
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7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

UGH. All I have to say is OY VEY! People are so ridiculous sometimes.

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