Vent!! really uset

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
2302 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

that sucks – i’m so sorry! i hate when i invite people over and they are late/no shows. that happened to fi and i last weekend – we had a group over, said come around 8, most people did and a few didn’t show till after 10! it’s like, don’t do me any favours by swinging by when you’ve obviously been out somewhere else…it sucks to be double booked, especially when you specifically let them know that you’re feeling overwhelmed and reached out for help. i hope they come through for you!

Post # 3
1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

Those are some rude arse friends.  

Post # 4
8720 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I dont have any advice since my friends are ALWAYS late and/or dont come if they dont feel it’s important. BUT where is your FI? Can you vent to him or get advice about wedding plans from him since he is the other person actually getting married?

Post # 5
42135 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

myweddingbee:  I don’t blame you for being upset. They were so rude to say they would come then not show up.

Post # 6
175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your friends were really rude for being so late, I hope they showed up eventually.

However, I don’t think it’s their duty to give you opinions on your wedding. Some people are just not that into weddings or details. For instance I would have absolutely no opinion on friend’s flowers, centerpieces, napkin colours, chair covers, etc. Also, what if you hate one of the bride’s ideas? Do you say something, and risk upsetting your friend?

You can always ask your FI’s opinions, or turn to all the Bees here. I’m sure you will get lots of feedback from the hive.

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