(Closed) Vent: Rude? Um…no, just blunt

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

Yikes! Who said you were rude? You just need to know a count of who is coming vs. who isn’t! It’s not as if you told them  you were diappointed if they couldn’t come…and even that isn’t all that bad. Try to let it roll off your back.

Post # 4
Member
6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

It’s hard to interpret tone through email but I don’t think your note was rude at all – just a reminder that they have to get back to you!

Post # 6
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

When is the RD? This Saturday? Um…it’s Wednesday! Either you’re going or you’re not…you just need to know!

EDIT: Good lord…it’s Thursday…not Wednesday! Sorry :o)

Post # 7
Member
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

UGH. Just ignore it and remind yourself that they are the rude ones for not RSVPing.

Post # 8
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3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Whoa….Thats crazy!!  I guess some people just take things the wrong way (although, Im not sure how you would misinterpret that)

Most people wont know what you are going through while planning a wedding and when they finally do, they will get that “Ahhhh hah” moment!

Post # 10
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2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Boys will be boys after all.  Let this role off your shoulders. You needed the info, kindly requested it and your email was fine!

Post # 12
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1207 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Crazy!  I would let it roll off your back though, no use being upset over it.

Post # 13
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

Understood – I still think you’re fine. You’re just reminding them that you need to have the numbers in by Saturday. And I agree with Jackie…boys!

Post # 14
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74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Definitely not rude. Men…they complain about anything! 😛

Post # 15
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow, overreacting much?  You were not rude at all!

Post # 16
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611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

guys are always like that. Oh well. I usually just tell my FI at the time to deal with any communication to the groomsmen and I always say that if I don’t hear by a certain date, they will have NO FOOD and NO BOOZE. That usually works.

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