(Closed) *VENT* So stressed and then this happens….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

What an a-hole.  That’s beyond uncalled for!

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow. I seriously have nothing to say to that besides who does that? Sorry you have to deal with this type of behavior from someone who is important enough to you or your FI to be in your wedding.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

jeeeeez. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that! Unfortunately, people’s true colors come out at times like these. Do yourself a favor, and after the wedding, weed these types of people out of your lives! What you need right now is love and support and people like that have nothing to offer! Keep your head high!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Holy crap, what a prick! I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. :/

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

WOW. That is horrible.  Is this usher really an important part of the wedding? I would be so tempted to revoke his title and uninvite him to the rehearsal dinner he apparently knows nothing about!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

wow d-bag alert.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What a jerk!  That would make me have a breakdown as well. Try not to stew on it.  Just stay focused on all the last minute things you are tying up.  And more importantly, focus on all the people who are supportive and loving.  (I had one friend help me with a lot of last minute stuff as soon as she got off the plane!  That helped me get over things that disappointed me about other people.)  Think about how much you love your groom and how excited you are to be marrying him soon!  The stress will all be over very soon and your day will be amazing regardless of this guy.  This guy is a jerk, so don’t give him a second thought – his opinion is meaningless.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Keep your head up honey you’re getting MARRIED IN THREE DAYS! Focus on that and not all the poison this guy is spewing. Oh, and have a blast on your wedding day!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Let me tell you something America, if ANYONE spoke to me like that he would be not welcome at my wedding, much less be an usher.  If my husband’s friends or family ever spoke to me that way, he would have a fit.  That’s unbelievable, you should never be treated that way, especially 3 days before your weddiing.   Your FI should tell him either he apologizes and pulls his act together or he not come to the wedding.  That’s ridiculous.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@Ginger123: i def agree….that is beyond disrespectful. he didnt even have the balls to call you and ask what was going on.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m not at ALL blaming you for this, but what is this in response to? Like what did you say to him or email to him to make him send THIS back?? My FH would probably pound him into the ground. There’s just no way. 

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