Post # 1
Wednesday is my birthday. SO is a teacher and gets two weeks off for winter break. We decided on a short getaway to celebrate both things. Since Choctaw Casinos are only an hour and a half away, we decided on OK instead of Shreveport. SOs parents, knowing our plans, generously surprised us by booking our trip for us! Cue facebook conversation with my ex:
Ex: Are you going to OK for your birthday?
Me: There are casinos.
Ex: Oh. I would’ve chosen Shreveport. For the culture.
Me: Well Durant is only an hour and a half away, so we decided on that over Shreveport.
Ex: Ah. To each his own I guess.
Me: Really?? Thanks for criticizing my birthday plans. We can’t all make the cultured choice.
Ex: Oh we can. You just choose not to.
Me: We’re only going for ONE night. We just wanted to hang out in a casino for my birthday. It’s only an hour and a half away.
Ex: Now that I think about it, hanging out in a casino for one night is pretty low class.
Me: And you wonder why your luck with girls is so terrible.
And he wonders why we didn’t work out?!?!?! UUUUGGGGHHHHHHH. Happy birthday to me.
Post # 3
exactly why most exes are just that –exes.
I wouldnt talk to anyone who put me down, let alone an ex who put me down. Delete him on FB.
Post # 4
Ugh, that would not fly with me. My ex knows not to pull anything like that or I’d cut him off for good.
Post # 5
What a douche. In my experience (and I know everyone is different) ex’s are all good for nothing!
Post # 6
@MissHoneyBun: Why do you even have him on your FB? It doesn’t sound like a scenario where you ended up being better friends. I have two ex’s that I am way better friends with than lovers. I would cut him loose.
Post # 7
Lol I’d just tell him to bugger off and block him. Not worth your time.
Post # 8
@Miss Tattoo: We were always better friends than lovers until it came time to actually BE friends and no longer be lovers. Then he became megadouche. Ugh to be continued…
Post # 9
Yeah, I never talk to my exes (on FB or anything, besides a quick “hi” if we see eachother in public). He’s probably jealous that you’re going out and having a good time with someone else.
Also, me and FI usually go to a casino for our birthdays every year. We usually have birthday luck, there’s good restaurants and shopping, and it’s a lot of fun!
Post # 10
he is def jealous- ex is an ex for a reason 🙂
Post # 11
Why would you want to communicate with this guy if he’s such a megadouche (as you’ve stated he is yourself)?
Sounds like he’s intentionally trying to piss you off and was fairly successful at it. Block him immediately!!!!
Post # 12
I wouldn’t even engage in conversation with someone who is such an ass. What is the point of even trying to talk to him? Delete him and ignore it. Who cares what he thinks of your birthday plans because he isn’t the one who has to enjoy them.
Post # 13
It sounds like to me he’s just trying to irritate the snot out of you and knows how to push your buttons…I would personally not talk to him. Don’t give him the satisfaction of him knowing he can still have an affect on you…even if it’s a negative one.
Post # 14
I’m curious as to why you even care about his opinion? He is your ex.. why does it matter what he thinks of your vacation?
Post # 15
Who cares what he thinks? He sounds like a jerk. Unfriend his ass!
Post # 16
I wouldn’t even waste my breath w/ that crud!
And I’m assuming by your post that you live in Texas! Shout out! 🙂