- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2009
FH (*almost* DH, finally!) and I have been TTC for the past 14 months. We got a BFP in late October, and then miscarried in early November. Mind you, we don’t drink, smoke, do any illegal drugs, and have been very concious about what we eat. We really, really wanted a baby. We still do, but this latest blow has pushed back our resolve for conceiving right away. HOWEVER, one of my friend’s dad’s GF just recently announced she is pregnant. Ladies, she smokes meth….drinks daily, has Hep C, and does NOT care about her health. She has already had one MC due to heavy drugs, and I fear for the well-being of this child (if she does in fact make it to delivery). I blew my top when I found out (not to her, and not in front of my friend) but that is just NOT FAIR or right. I have a mind to call CPS after the child is born, because the living conditions are less than ideal and I know the child will not be taken care of. Why are the unfit mothers the most friggin fertile??! UGH it just drives me INSANE. I cried, FH cried, and he told me that he would call CPS if need be. I worry that the child won’t even make it out of the womb because of how badly she abuses her body. It breaks my heart; no child should die because of their mother being a drug addicted piece of scum. I am against abortion, but I almost think it would be better than bringing an innocent child into such a horrible enviroment. I had to vent, because it is breaking my heart right now. I would give anything to be able to have a normal (and complete) pregnancy, and this girl doesn’t care about the health or safety of herself or her child, and is only getting pregnant to ‘be pregnant’, in her own words. I wish I could slap her! Or, at the least, knock some sense into her. When you’re given the opportunity to bear life, please, take the time to ensure that your child will be loved and cared for correctly!!!! ARRRRRGHHHHH! Sorry, this is just eating me up and I’m so furious at this girl. Did I mention she’s 19 and her boyfriend is in his late 40s (oh, and he’s not the father of the child). Granted, I’m also 19, but I have my wits about me and I am financially and emotionally responsible and would never, ever, ever do something so stupid as meth or cocaine while pregnant (or ever)! My friend isn’t happy about this, either, considering her dad’s GF is the same age as her and they are into some hard stuff. I’m just so upset, I don’t even know where to begin. UUUUUUGH!