- 4 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
I am completely aware I’m being a dumb girl right now, but I just need to vent!!!
FI and I hardly get time together with our busy schedules. When he asked last week if it would be ok if he went to his cousin’s house today (who he hasn’t seen in years) I said that, of course it was okay – even though it was one of our only days off together. The expectation was that he’d go over early afternoon and be home after dinner (meaning home around 7/7:30). No problem. At around 6, I get a text: “J wants me to hang out, it is ok if I go grab a drink?”. Ok. So I’m thinking this means, I’m stopping along the way to grab a drink, and I’ll be home a bit later than expected. So I text back, “Sure, when will you be home?”. He doesnt reply until about 8pm when he says “crossing the bridge” which means that he is crossing the GW and is literally a few blocks away from our apartment.
He gets home, and I ask, “how’s your cousin? how’s J?” to which he replies:
“What do you mean? I’m meeting J later.”
ugh. He just left, at 9:30, to go meet J in midtown. This means that he probably wont be home until 1 or 2 am – plus we have plans early in the morning.
Again, I know I’m being a dummy about this, but I just hate when he doesn’t communicate these things to me and then I’m the one who is left alone on a Sat. night! boo!