(Closed) vent/help..nightmare bridesmaid taking over wedding

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Have you lost your voice when it comes to her? When she crosses the line, tell her.

She may actually be under the delusion that she is being helpful.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think you need to tell her how you feel. If she steps out of line make sure you say something ASAP to keep her from going overboard. I don’t know what day of things she’s trying to do, but I hope it’s not anything crazy. Stay firm with her and try to keep your cool. I hope you have more patience than I do. This would drive me crazy!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sounds like you need to have a sit down heart to heart talk with this girl on what boundaries are. Maybe her heart is in the right place, but seriously, you need to talk to her.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

The other bees are right. Sit her down and have a firm talk with her. Thank her for her input and help, but tell her you have a definite view of your wedding. Her behavior is only going to escalate if you keep silent.

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