- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
i am so upset right now.
this friend of mine VOLUNTEERED herself as a bridesmaid. i let it go thinking she’s a childhood friend, and i don’t have many of friends, let alone one that goes that far back. keep in mine we were never great friends to begin with.
she complained about the bm dress that i am paying for. she said it doesn’t suit her skin tone (the dress is eggplant purple and she’s a pale asian). in her opinion, the dress is not shiny enough. (wedding is outdoor and the dress is shiffon, which i think is perfect)
she did not contact me for almost 4 most, and the only thing she cared about after that was if we have purchased our wedding bands because she wanted our business.
she asked my moh and i about my bachelorette, we told her what had plan, she said the plan’s boring and suggested we do something totally not me.
now she’s taking charge some wedding day details without even consulting me nor even having that task assigned to her. i didn’t even know she was looking into it until my moh told me about it. don’t get me wrong, i appreciate the help, but after all that has happened, i just dun feel respected at all.
i’m BEYOND frustrated with this girl. i did not want her to be part of the bridal party to begin with. she’s stressing me out beyond believe.
how can someone be so disrespectful? i don’t even want to have my bachelorette because of her.