Post # 1
I guess I’m just feeling sorry for myself here but it’s getting kind of bothersome. He is at work but we have texted all day he asked me to do stuff..ect and of course we did wake up in the same bed this morning but nothing.
This morning I was like oh he is going to get to work and remember and text or call, well that was hours ago. He’ll be home soon…I guess he could be waiting to say it in person but that doesn’t really seem like him and I don’t think he’s trying to suprise me bc honestly that doesn’t make any sense, suprise I pretended to not know it was your birthday..ok Happy Birthday…
We don’t really go all out or do gifts or anything for birthdays just normally something little like for his birthday I made and decorated a cake and made him a special dinner…I may have gotten him something small I don’t remember.
I would’ve been fine with just a simple happy birthday, I’m not expecting a gift or anything of that nature.
It doesn’t help that I’m pregnant and emotinal either…sigh owell. It’s just another day.
Post # 3
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
That is sad, I would be upset, too. But..HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I know a stranger saying it isn’t as exciting, but it is the best I can do 🙂
Post # 4
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
You have more patience than me… I would have been like “Remember how it’s my birthday?!?!?!” after we’d been awake for about 2 minutes and he hadn’t said anything about it.
He’s just being an accidental dumbass – I’m sure it doesn’t have anything to do with how much he loves you 🙂
Post # 5
@ames12708: Is he normally a forgetful person? I am not always the best with remembering birthdays other than my immediate family so I program the dates into my phone. There is no excuse to forget your pregnant wife’s birthday but if he is THAT forgetful, you would think he’d make himself a note.
I am hoping he brings home a surprise for you! Happy birthday!
Post # 6
that would really upset me 🙁 I’m sorry …. I would remind him soon or tomorrow you’ll both feel 100 times worse… especially when he remembers that he forgot.
Post # 7
Happy Birthday to you!!!
I get where you are coming from. I turned 40 on the 10th this month and my DH screwed up royally for planning. I wanted for him and I to go just us to a resort town for a few days to see the fall colors. I had asked months ago if he could take the days off.
He asked me the weekend before my birthday what I wanted to do. Let’s just say I ended up in tears because he says he doesnt remember the conversations yes conversations we had about this. And it was way to late to be able to get a hotel room where I wanted to go.
Then he tells me two days before my birthday he had planned on taking me on a river boat cruise to see the fall colors but because the gov was shut down the cruises were not running.
So instead on my birthday ( had taken that day and the next day off) he took half a day off and took me out to lunch and gave me a beautiful braclet that is opal and diamonds… so he redeemed himself.
I hope your DH redeems himself also!
Post # 8
Happy birthday!! I hope he comes home with a surprise for you!
Sometimes people are just really forgetful and/or oblivious. I agree with @Mrs.H2B: that you should say something when he gets home, and you should also tell him that he owes you big time! 🙂
Post # 9
Thanks everyone, I feel guilty even venting it out on here bc he is so wonderful but I am feeling rather sad about it.
I will be mentioning it when he gets home I won’t wait till tomorrow lol
Post # 10
@ames12708: happy birthday! Perhaps he is planning a surprise for when the gets home?
Post # 11
Happy birthday!!!! *hugs*
Post # 12
Happy birthday by the way…. I’m sure he will feel really bad and make it up to you later 🙂 Boys are silly sometimes.
Post # 13
That totally sucks 🙁 Have a drink before he gets home! Happy birthday!
Post # 14
Talk abot the worst time to forget someone’s birthday EVER!
Post # 15
@prettyinpink11: Of Lemonade! She’s preg!!
Happy Birthday!!… That would not fly with me… Nuh uh!… He’s cruisin’ for a bruisin’ if you ask me!