- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Well..lets begin with the basics. I live on my own, work 40 hour weeks, go to school, and planning my wedding. I think that is a major victory for anyone. We are paying for the wedding ourselves. My dad and STEP mom have never been happy with me since I moved out two and a half years ago. Both of them have always talked down to me but put on this mask when we are around family. Yesterday was my nieces bday party I worked 6-2 and immediately headed over there after work. The first thing out of my dads mouth is about how stuck up I am. I have never EVER considered myself stuck up. Considering I was always helping him when he needed it. I even bought a car for 1500 from him (he got it for free) because he needed to put a down payment on a car. This part gets a little confusing. My step sister was together with this guy for 5 years and he was a dirt bag from the very beginning. Even though my dad (my step mom refuses to get a job) could barely afford it he paid for their wedding. 5 months later they got a divorce, she is with someone else and pregnant again. My dad has yet to offer to pay for my wedding or give me back the 550 dollars my fiancee and I loaned him to help him, his wife, and her two GROWN kids with no jobs, move into a house. Christmas came around and my bday two days later I did not get a single gift from my dad (not saying I expected one) at my bday dinner he handed me a 100 dollars said this was not for christmas or my bday this was some of the money he owed me (this is before he lied saying he put 250 dollars on my wind shield while I was at work. It mysteriously disappeared. I freaked out had my manager check the cameras and it showed NO ONE oging near my car.) I later found out he gave my step siblings money for christmas too. This upset me because I always helped them out when they needed it. While HER kids did nothing but whine about crap.
My step mom goes on and on about how she consider me her daughter but on FB (where none of my family can see it) she says step kids. Always talks about her kids and how proud of them she is and how much she loves them. never mentions me or my sister. I shut them out once and my dad refused to even acknowledge me. I feel as though I shouldnt even invite them to my own wedding becuase of everything. I really dont know what to do.