(Closed) Venting

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1319 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

That sucks. I’m sorry. How long has your step-mom been your step-mom? If not long, I wouldn’t expect much more from her.

But your dad just seems like a mooch. If you feel you should keep helping him out (family, and all), do, but you may as well stop expecting it back. He doesn’t seem too interested in you, aside from what you can do for him.

Post # 4
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1231 posts
Bumble bee

@Mrs.Larson11:  wow! I’m really sorry. You are so nice and caring to help them out at all and for that you get nothing in return. That really stinks. I wouldn’t blame you if you didn’t invite them to your wedding, but it would definately cause even more drama with them.

Post # 6
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1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I am so sorry hun.  I can’t imagine how you feel; I would be devasted if my own father treated me like that.  Thank you for the reminder to be thankful for the GOOD people in your life. Unfortunately it doesn’t sound like your dad is one of them…he sounds more like a burden and negative influence with his comments and such.  I would go about my business without including him in on most things.  You don’t have to necessarily shut him out completely from your life, but I love the quote, “The only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in theirs.”

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