Venting, TTC and so full of emotions

posted 2 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
Member
371 posts
Helper bee

Coco106:  vent away! I just wrote lastnight about how I found out also my husbands best friends wife is also pregnant! She announced it on One of the social networks & she’s only 4weeks pregnant! 

I also just started TTC on April as well, and am still wondering why I didn’t get my BFP. I’ve Ben having my periods regular up until last month when I missed a period a full month until today I finally received AF. But hey, i realized thats it’s really normal to feel jealous over being jealous of another pregnancy. It’s okay, our time will come very soon! FX for you!!! 🙂 also a lot of bees suggested I use Vitex! search it up! I’m sure your able to purchase it at VitaminShoppe! 

Post # 4
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7281 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

I’m sorry you are hurting. It can be hard to watch others obtain what you long for. But you are making progress, so maybe try to focus on that? I walked out of our meeting with the specialist feeling blah because they (obviously) couldn’t promise us 100% success. But they did give us 70% odds of success, and after that sank in I started to feel a lot better. It’s okay to feel down for a moment, and then you pick yourself back up, put a smile on your face, and live in the present while enjoying all of the wonderful things you already have. It’s hard, but try to live in the present, because the present is beautiful in its own way, even if it isn’t exactly what you want.

Post # 5
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

It is really hard some days. But know also that there will be days where it doesn’t hurt so much. We have been TTC for 13 months and not even a blip on the radar. We’ve had some prelim testing done and there has been no red flags, so it’s just a waiting game for us. I’m 31 and just two days ago my MIL said I have plenty of time, at least a decade, before I should start worrying. She doesn’t know we’re trying, but I know that I can’t imagine waiting a decade more to have a child. The pain is real for us, but I agree with Lovekiss, “live in the present, because the present is beautiful in its own way, even if it isn’t exactly what you want.” That’s so true.

Post # 7
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446 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Coco106:  sorry you are going through this, it must not be easy. I would be upset also if my SIL got pregnant with her second before I had my first (and it could very well happen). i know everyone in our family would start making comments too, and it would be very hard on us…

keep us posted on your doctor appt. FX for you!

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