(Closed) Venting…no more questions!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1086 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sorry this is so hard for you, just keep your screen name in mind. When it all seems overwhelming, tell them you will call them back, wait on answering the questions, take a breather. You obviously feel slightly more relaxed on the question part, seeing as to how you feel guilty for snapping, if you don’t have a planner, it reasonable that getting down to the wire you are getting more stressed. Just don’t forget to take a few minutes to breathe in between all of the chaos. And keep smiling ๐Ÿ˜€ And it’s only 6 days to go, you can do this, you’ve answered questions, done the impossible, organized an event in this long time, you can handle another six days, just breathe and don’t forget to smile ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

HA! We’re still over a year out and I’m already tired of answering questions. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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308 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

oh my…. I know what you mean!  What I’m sick of…. when FI gives me as he calls it “something to think about”.  GRRRRR 

 I’m 13 days out.  I’m working on who needs to be where at what time kind of stuff.  I hadn’t thought about ICE…. ugh, he was wanting to DISCUSS what to do about ice.  I finally said ” I NEED for you to just take care of the effing ice…. I don’t need to be stressed over ICE!”  I need for him to just jump in and take care of things without being TOLD and without the needless conversations. 

Then I said, ok I need your dad to pick up the boutinierres (sp) the morning of.  He repeated himself like 5 times “just figure out where and when” OVER AND OVER while I’m Staring at the schedule.  Obviously I’m trying to figure that out.  STOP repeating yourself and let me think!!!!.

I know that he is trying to be helpful and let me have “My” day (his words) be exactly as I want it to be.  But UGH!!!!!!

Post # 7
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319 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh, yes, I’m totally with you.  We are still a month out and yet people want to know exact times and details of things that I have yet to figure out! Why does SIL who is not in the wedding party need to know the exact timing of the entire wedding day? Arg.

Venting here is good ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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123 posts
Blushing bee

I feel your pain!  I spent HOURS making a detailed, easy to read wedding website that had more information than our guests could possibly need.  All through planning and up to the wedding day itself I’d have family and friends asking me all sorts of questions that were on the website…that apparently no one bothered to access and read…that was on the STDs we sent out.

I finally got to the point where I’d answer just about every question with, “You can find the answer to that on our wedding website”.

Post # 9
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9825 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

My wedding is long over, but I can relate. Today makes me a week past my pregnancy due date and my phone has been blowing up with calls and texts asking me when I’m having the baby, if I’ve had the baby, where’s the baby, why haven’t I called about the baby.

When I have the baby I will do nothing short of holding a press conference, but for now I have no answers, sorry! The moral of the story is, the questioning never ends even after the wedding Wink

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