- 3 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
I’m going crazy.
So we chose an awesome castle for our wedding reception. I originally fell in love with a smaller venue in the forest on a lake in Scotland, but unfortunately it could only hold 50 people. Since my mom would be upset if I don’t invite cousins, I turned it down. My cousins aren’t a big deal, but FI has 14 aunts and uncles just on his dad’s side, not counting their kids (and on average each couple has about 3 kids).
So, we got an awesome caslte, but the reception can not be held there. Meaning, we have to find somewhere else. There aren’t many places nearby and many venues are too small.
I feel so much regret… I wish I could have just found a venue that could have the ceremony and reception, but I would feel so guilty if I cancelled the castle mostly because we can’t get our full deposit back and we aren’t exactly swimming in cash. My parents aren’t helping to pay a dime and I’m not making sh*t right now… so it is basically just FI paying for this. 🙁
Just needed to put this out there…