- 3 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Do any of you Bees NOT talk to someone in your family? And I mean immediate family, like a mother, sister, brother, father?
I ask because I am someone who will keep trying to fix a relationship that is beyond repair. No matter how hard I try, it always fails.
My sister and I have never gotten along, mostly on her part. She is very cold, doesn’t care about anyone but herself, and the things she says are so mean, regardless if they are said because you are mad, its just so hurtful.
Today is the day that I need to really stick by what I say because its no longer affecting me, its now affecting DH. He wants nothing to do with her and I don’t blame him. Mostly because he is sick of how hurt I am over this and that I am the only one trying (this is his very protective side).
I know that her words meant to hurt me, and they did. She said and I quote “when I get married, i will make sure I’m skinny unlike you who gained weight for it. in your thank you cards you can see ya backkk fatty patty” <—yes I know it sounds so immature, and it is, shes 24 and acts like a highschool girl. But I have struggled with my weight, and for you to go that low? Is that all you have to insult me with is my weight? I know that she is jealous of me. She lives with a guy who does not work, she smokes pot all day, she lives in a teeny apartment, shes always broke, and never goes anywhere except to work.
I am posting because I am sad that I think I have hit rock bottom and need to really let go and live as if she doesn’t exist. I am sad because I know that I have tried, and I know that this will cause a rift between my mother and I who have had problems but we are finally in a great place, but this with my sister is going to make it shitty again.
If any of you bees have dealt with this or have some advice, I would appreciate it.