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Very sad day

posted 2 years ago in Babies

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tmarie April 7, 2009 SFValley, So. Cal.

So just wanted to let the Bees know to take me off the expecting list. We went for our 9wk ultrasound today and our baby no longer had a heartbeat or bloodflow. It was very shocking as I wasn't cramping or bleeding and the baby measured 8wks 3days so I guess last week our angel left us. IVF is a very heartbreaking process and I think we have decided we cant emotionally or financially invest again. I am ok, I feel more sad for DH as he is not a father but I have my teens.

A side note to snmcdonnell: I didn't feel my DH felt like a father either that it wasn't very real yet but we went to todays appt very excited and I have never seen my dear hubby cry so much and pretty much all day. So while he might not feel like a dad yet I bet he feels more than even he knows.

Will need some Bee time off, so Mrs. DG, Mighty and all the other soon to bee mammas my best wishes and luck to you!

Tmarie

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MissAsB June 6, 2009 Married in CO, Living in AL

I'm so sorry about your loss.

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babyboo

I am so sorry.

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Ms Mini July 17, 2010 Medicine Hat, AB

I am so so sorry for your loss.

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bridegrl October 9, 2010 Monterey County, California

so sorry...

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rlsulli1598@verizon.net oregon

So sorry My prayers tonight are with you and your DH and family. :(

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MightySapphire

Oh tmarie, I'm so sorry for you! I know you said you won't be trying again, but here's a link to a site which offers an incredible amount of support for those who have lost an angel:

http://spals.com

All my comfort to you!

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Magenta July 31, 2010 Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

so sorry...

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alishadhs4 June 5, 2010 Colorado Springs, CO

I think we are all at a loss for words, so sorry to hear this :(

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caitlanc September 12, 2009 Western Slope of Colorado

Oh, T! I'm so sorry. There are no words. We will all be holding you and your family in our hearts.

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kroegerk November 11, 2011 Arizona

very very sorry!

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D.Marie April 24, 2010 Philadelphia, PA

Tmarie I am so sorry for you and your husband...along with the rest of the bee family on here we give you lots of support and wish only the best for you both.

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ArikkaLynn June 6, 2010

So very sorry for your loss.

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MarzipanMrs. June 2009 New Jersey

I'm so sorry for you and your husband.

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jennifer_espos June 18, 2010 NYC

I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you and your hubby are able to finds comfort soon.

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msmonicka June 19, 2010 Milwaukee, Wisconsin

I'm so sorry for the loss your family has suffered. You're in my thoughts and prayers!!

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Roux December 2, 2012 Ballarat, Australia

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine the sorrow you and your family is feeling. I will keep your family in my thoughts.

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Mrs. DG July 18, 2009 Seattle/Tahoe

I'm so sorry tmarie. I'll keep you in my thoughts. Hugs.

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snmcdowell 9-13-08 Chicago

oh, tmarie, I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your husband. You are so kind to offer me words of support when you are in pain! I hope that you are comforted by all of us bees who are thinking and praying for you.

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Mrs. Spring May 10, 2009 California

I'm so sorry, tmarie. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

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Janna19 June 7, 2008 New York

Tmarie, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss

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northernazbride August 1, 2009 Arizona

I'm so, so sorry TMarie, I know how horrible this can be, I've had three mcs. Please know that you and your husband are in my thoughts and if you ever need to to talk, I'm here for you.

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ginnyc April 30, 2011 Madison, WI

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.

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guitargirl October 2009 Ohio

Sorry for your loss. Hug!

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gabrielleelise1981 August 28, 2010 Portland, Maine

so sorry to hear about you and your husbands loss :(

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texasmeredith

So sorry to hear about your loss. Hugs to you.

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MadiLove918 May 2011 Palm Bay, FL

I'm sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and as always, we're here for you any time you're ready to come back!

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bellenga July 31, 2010 Georgia

So so sorry for you loss. Will keep you, H and family in my prayers. My sis went thru this too.

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teeleaf22 June 11, 2010 Milford, PA (wedding in Easton, PA)

So Sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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rachaelrobin January 16, 2011 Philadelphia

I am so sorry for your loss.

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ceamoste September 3, 2011

aww i'm so sorry to hear that. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

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tmarie April 7, 2009 SFValley, So. Cal.

I have read all of your comments and they touch my heart, Thank you. It's very strange to go from being pregnant to nothing, although I feel lucky to have had wonderful medical care and support. I feel ok not much cramping, it's the little reminders throughout my day that my life plan has changed that are tough. One day at a time, I know.

Again Thank you all.

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GeorgiaLadyinTexas April 3, 2010 Atlanta, GA

I am so sorry for your loss. Reading your post actually made me tear up. Many thoughts and prayers to you and your husband. Your baby is with the angels.

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