(Closed) Very TMI question (try not to make fun!)

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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1072 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

ummmm…. you sound like you have a very normal vagina.  I wouldn’t worry too much about it

Post # 5
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905 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Mrs.babycat:  +1 

If you and your boyfriend have sex everyday and he’s never given any indication of a problem then you’re fine.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

@anon00:  Sorry, you did say you brought this up before!  If it really is concerning to you, why not make an appointment to discuss it?

I think that would help you out more than more pages on a message board.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@anon00:  Honestly, you sound like you may have an unhealthy preoccupation with the size of your vagaina. Or, perhaps you just really don’t know what women are supposed to look like?  Did you not get enough feedback in your previous post?  I suggest a visit to a gyneclologist who can reassure you that you are perfectly normal.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

You are totally normal. Every time this thought comes into your head, remind yourself that everyone is different — some people have big hands, some people have small hands, some men have small penises, some have big penises. It is ALL NORMAL. You are FINE. If this continues to bother you, I’d gently suggest that you see a therapist, becauset his is not a problem with your body, it’s a problem in your head. YOUR BODY IS NORMAL.

Post # 12
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1006 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m pretty sure this is something that people don’t worry about.  It sounds like your boyfriend doesn’t have any issues with you so why try to fix it if it’s not broken? 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Sounds very normal to me. That’s about how I would describe my “measurements”, and I have had doctors comment that I’m quite small down there. You’re fine :). If you are self-conscious about it, why not ask your partner? It would probably be a very reassuring chat!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

A gyn actually commented on the tightness of a vagina?  I can’t even begin to imagine such a thing.  Rest assured that men do not care how many fingers you can fit in there.  Now quit doing that and be happy.  🙂

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@anon00:  You sound normal to me….I wouldnt worry.  If he isnt complaining…I wouldnt worry!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@anon00:  I don’t know anyone who can’t fit one finger in…. that sounds extremely strange

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