VERY weird addressing question

posted 3 years ago in Paper
Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I would just address it to the friend with a plus one although technical eduquette  says Mr and Mrs. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

How about Mr. Friend and guest?

Idk…. thats my only suggestion!

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@jasonkatie2014:  When someone is just dating, the STDs are either sent to that person only, or that person “+ guest”. Because over the next year they might not still be with that partner. Either way, you don’t name the recent girlfriend on the STD.

(See e.g. this very old thread http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/and-guest-on-save-the-dates  )

The fact that the girlfriend is “technically” his wife doesn’t change that. I suggest sending the STD to him only. Your FI can tell him verbally that he will get to bring a guest to the wedding.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Just give him a “and guest”. He knows his situation is unique and so does she- who knows if he’ll be dating his wife by the time of your wedding. Unless he told you or your FI that they are in a serious or committed relationship now, just give him a generic guest, right?

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