VERY weird addressing question

posted 4 years ago in Paper
Post # 4
23 posts
  • Wedding: February 2014

I would just address it to the friend with a plus one although technical eduquette  says Mr and Mrs. 

Post # 5
1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

How about Mr. Friend and guest?

Idk…. thats my only suggestion!

Post # 6
7907 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@jasonkatie2014:  When someone is just dating, the STDs are either sent to that person only, or that person “+ guest”. Because over the next year they might not still be with that partner. Either way, you don’t name the recent girlfriend on the STD.

(See e.g. this very old thread  )

The fact that the girlfriend is “technically” his wife doesn’t change that. I suggest sending the STD to him only. Your FI can tell him verbally that he will get to bring a guest to the wedding.

Post # 9
1773 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Just give him a “and guest”. He knows his situation is unique and so does she- who knows if he’ll be dating his wife by the time of your wedding. Unless he told you or your FI that they are in a serious or committed relationship now, just give him a generic guest, right?

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