(Closed) Virgin Bride – Lubricant?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
5547 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Yes. Yes. Yes. YES. It makes life so much easier. Astroglide was my best friend on our Honeymoon. 🙂

Post # 4
827 posts
Busy bee

Yes, you should.  I recommend something simple (no “tingling” or “warming” or anything that could cause burning) with no glycerin or parabens or anything that could potentially cause an issue/reaction.  You can always get fancier later, but I think it would be best to play it safe on your honeymoon.

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Post # 5
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Yes you should use lube and use it anytime you need, not just after the first time. 

I would say do NOT use KY. It’s really not good for the nether regions – but great for back massages. Any time I’ve used KY I’ve ended up with a UTI (never had them before in my life until the first time I used KY and two or three subsequent times until I finally got the clue!)

I was just recommended silicone-based Astroglide and I had positive results. 

Post # 6
692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I recommend coconut oil. It’s natural, it’s good for you, and it works wonders. You can get it online or even at walmart. A jar lasts FOREVER. Also, read up on the forums at ww.Themarriagebed.com and there will be lots of advise for virgin brides. It was really helpful.

Post # 7
3969 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@LuluInLove:  Just make sure that it’s not going to break down condoms (if you’re using them). Lube is your friend. I honestly cannot have sex comfortably without it.

Post # 8
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Many people of varying levels of experience use lubricant. Some people find that it makes sex more comfortable and other people don’t create as much natural lubricant (that’s just how some people are, but for others it can be due to nerves, medication, etc. Allergies meds are a big cause of dryness). If you are using condoms, don’t use an oil based lube. I love Jo lubricants – they have water based and oil based. I find that silicone lubes tend to last longer and not get sticky (KY is common, but I find it’s sticky and tastes weird)

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