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recently i have seen a few posts about virgins. Personally, I only know like one girl who is still a virgin. So i was wondering who all is a virgin still.
Dude i have a solid handful of "Good Christian" friends who are deathly afraid of the one eyed snake being anywhere near them, even if they're fully clothed. I even have one friend who waited until the evening AFTER her wedding.
DH was my first/only, but we started the nookie 5 years ago. We took a 13 month break before the wedding. Seemed like a good idea at the time.
I am, if by virgin you mean 'has not engaged in vaginal intercourse'.
I've had oral sex, but that's all. It's a religious and emotional choice that I made a long time ago, and I still value it enough to wait. J is too, and we work together to make it happen (er, not happen, haha).
Nope...I crossed that bridge a LONGGG time ago. And I also don't really know any virgins IRL.
Not a virgin. That ship has sailed. I only know one virgin - my MOH's bff from high school.
That is so last century for me. 

I only know one, she is modern Orthodox Jewish. I totally support her choice, as she is one of the most thoughtfully religious people I have ever known. It isn't for me, but I would NEVER rag on her.
I'm 32 and an encore bride-to-be. The only virgins I know personally are my daughters, my nieces, my son and my nephews and their friends.
I am NOT!
I know 2 virgins - both very religious! One is waiting until her wedding day to kiss a boy/man!
As of about 6 mo ago I had two good friends in their mid 20s who were still virgins. Ironically they both lost it within a week of each other! Now I know 2 people but they're not good friends, just casual.
I am! And I am proud of it. I have also done things I am not proud of but I am a virgin.
I will say that I am in no way scared.. lol. ok maybe I scared of the pain the first time but not of sex. FI and I believe that sex was designed for marriage so we wait. 4 months left!
I think I'm only a virgin in my grandmother's eyes. I don't think I know of one either. Then again, maybe its just something that hasn't come up... its not really a conversation piece, haha.
I'm not, but sometimes wish I had waited til I met my fiance to give up...
I had a dream this weekend that I put on my wedding dress and it turned black. I asked FI (who loves dream interpretation) what he thought it meant and he was like 'It's because you're NOT a virgin!!!!' How insightful of him, LOL.
Wow @ Mrs. Martin! You know someone waiting until their wedding day just to kiss! I could not do it!
One of my BM's is a virgin but she's the only one I know of
Virgin here! Sometimes I wish I would have "experimented", but I'm comfortable with my choice and with the Boy being my one and only.
me and my FI both are....and proud of it.we've worked hard to keep that distinction..its important to us...i never thought itd be this hard to wait though..less than 4 months to go! yay! haha
I am.. and so is the FI, but if the wedding wasn't so close, and we aren't long distance, it would be aaaawfully hard to wait, for religious reasons), and last time we were together, it was difficult not too.
I am definitely NOT scared, and super ready. :) yay for sex! :P
I am not anymore, but if you'd asked me 14 months ago I would have said yes. My FI and I were 24 when we did it for the first time for both of us. I wanted to wait until the wedding night, but wasn't able to last out a 6 1/2 year courtship!
I know someone who didn't kiss her FI until after he proposed! She's waiting until the wedding night of course!
We were before we started dating each other, but not anymore. Definitely glad our first time won't be on the wedding night.
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I'm a virgin, but my bf is not. I really want to wait til our wedding night. We both have discussed getting married and I'm currently waiting on that. He obviously wants to have sex like right now, but I don't know. I don't feel pressured at all, but I wonder if I should wait. I'm religious to a certain extent so it really isn't that. I'm confused. lol
I'm not, but I know a couple of people who are still virgins. It's certainly not a bad thing. People should do what makes them comfortable, and if that means abstaining, then by all means!
Neither of us are, from earlier in our lives (not that we're that old - 23 & 24), but we are now born again Christians so it's been a few years for us both :) It's not as hard as I thought it would be! We both knew it wasn't on the table for us before we're married, so we haven't had sex yet. It's been one of many special points of difference for us with this relationship :)
I'm not but I know some people who are. The FI and I decided to withstain from sex 3 months before the wedding to make the wedding night "special".
I'm not and neither is my FH. We both have had the same amount of partners as the other which is convienent.
I know a few virgins, two of my sorority sisters and my cousin...but I am still young (22)
I am not, passed that milestone awhile ago.
This post got me thinking about a time in my life when it all the girls talked about virginity and thought it was such an important topic, lol
I am not, and don't know anyone who is, but I'm also 28. If I suddenly woke up and was 18 again, there would be people I WOULD NOT date again (or sleep with), but I don't really have any regrets, and am glad that FH and I have already tested to know that we are "compatible" in that department ;-)
but to each their own, there is something to be said for waiting until it's right for you!
Neither my FI or I have had sex and we have been together for six years straight. I have to be completely honest its not always easy but its something we want to wait for.
My husband and I were eachothers' first. But we didn't wait for marriage at all.
And I don't know any virgins now and I'm 22.
I'm not but know some people that are. My mom's cousin waited to kiss her husband until the wedding and now they have 10 kids.
The man and I were each others firsts but then decided for religious reasons to wait until we're married. We've been together for 4 years now and haven't had sex for 3 years and 5 months. And, we know quite a few people who are virgins or waited until they were married, as well as one girl who had her first kiss on her wedding day.
Daydreamwander - we're in the same boat here.
Its one of those decisions that is right for us on an emotional and spiritual level. As well as a practical one - I have Never had a pregnancy scare.
No, however i was saving myself for the perfect guy and i chose well because we have been together more then four years!
I LUV one eyed snakes...well one in particular
. I don't know any virgins and I'm glad both FI and I had other experiences in the past I feel like that's where I learned some of my best tricks.
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