(Closed) Virgin or not?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you a virgin?
    Yes : (80 votes)
    13 %
    No : (491 votes)
    82 %
    No, but not having sex again until I'm married : (27 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    besides youngsters, I am not sure I know any either.

    Post # 4
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Dude i have a solid handful of “Good Christian” friends who are deathly afraid of the one eyed snake being anywhere near them, even if they’re fully clothed. I even have one friend who waited until the evening AFTER her wedding.

    DH was my first/only, but we started the nookie 5 years ago. We took a 13 month break before the wedding. Seemed like a good idea at the time.

    Post # 5
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    7976 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I am, if by virgin you mean ‘has not engaged in vaginal intercourse’.

    I’ve had oral sex, but that’s all. It’s a religious and emotional choice that I made a long time ago, and I still value it enough to wait. J is too, and we work together to make it happen (er, not happen, haha). 

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Nope…I crossed that bridge a LONGGG time ago. And I also don’t really know any virgins IRL. 

    Post # 7
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Not a virgin. That ship has sailed. I only know one virgin – my MOH’s bff from high school.

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    That is so last century for me. WinkEmbarassed

    I only know one, she is modern Orthodox Jewish. I totally support her choice, as she is one of the most thoughtfully religious people I have ever known. It isn’t for me, but I would NEVER rag on her.

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I’m 32 and an encore bride-to-be.  The only virgins I know personally are my daughters, my nieces, my son and my nephews and their friends. 

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I am NOT!

    I know 2 virgins – both very religious! One is waiting until her wedding day to kiss a boy/man!

    Post # 11
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    As of about 6 mo ago I had two good friends in their mid 20s who were still virgins. Ironically they both lost it  within a week of each other! Now I know 2 people but they’re not good friends, just casual.

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I am! And I am proud of it. I have also done things I am not proud of but I am a virgin.

    I will say that I am in no way scared.. lol. ok maybe I scared of the pain the first time but not of sex. FI and I believe that sex was designed for marriage so we wait. 4 months left!

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    My hubby WAS one! 😉

    Post # 14
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    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think I’m only a virgin in my grandmother’s eyes.  I don’t think I know of one either.  Then again, maybe its just something that hasn’t come up… its not really a conversation piece, haha.

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I’m not, but sometimes wish I had waited til I met my fiance to give up…

    I had a dream this weekend that I put on my wedding dress and it turned black. I asked FI (who loves dream interpretation) what he thought it meant and he was like ‘It’s because you’re NOT a virgin!!!!’ How insightful of him, LOL.

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Wow @ Mrs. Martin! You know someone waiting until their wedding day just to kiss! I could not do it!

    One of my BM’s is a virgin but she’s the only one I know of

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