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Volunteering with my furbaby is becoming a nightmare! Need advice.

posted 4 months ago in Pets
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    So one of my dogs has been trained as a certified therapy dog. I have a double major background in psycholgy and never got into the field so since I have a brillant dog who does very well with people of all ages, handicaps, etc. I really wanted to get into volunteering.

    We are available only on weekends and before signing up I looked at the schedule of this particular group and saw that they had multiple visits every sat and sun and plenty that were within 30-45 min radius, so this is why I chose this group.

    When you start in the program you and your dog have to complete a number of training sessions with a mentor before you can work on your own. The problem is they won't tell me when the training dates are. I have to call multiple times and send multiple email just to get the training schedule. And when I do, they are usually all weekedays and maybe one weekend and when I reply within a day I am told that the weekend slot is filled for training dogs. And then the process starts all over again.

    So this time when I replied they told me once again that that weekend date was full and proceeded to write me a page about how I need to make this more of a commitment and reply immediately and because of this they are keeping my dog in training and will not graduate her. I responded by letting them know that when we signed up to volunteer I made it perfectly clear that we could only volunteer on weekends but I can never seem to get a training schedule and or constantly told that the weekend are full. I explained that I would volunteer every weekend if they let me.

    So they sent me a schedule of next sat and sun of locations well over an hour a way and one of them is with severely handicapped (brain dead patients) which is very difficult for a dog especially one who is just starting all of this. Should I go? Are they just setting me up to fail?

    On the general schedule though they have plenty of weekend dates so I know I just have to get through this training but now I don't even want to go around these people because they seem very cold and nasty.  Now I feel like I'm begging to volunteer and they hate me.

    What would you do? Is it wrong to quit volunteering? What would I even say?

    I thought I was doing something nice when I was volunteering!

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    I just wanted to say that I work at a medical facility that has a visiting pet program and our patients (and staff) are SUPER appreciative of the visits.  I would push through if you can because I know the difference it makes in our patient's lives and I think you will find it very rewarding also.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    @eeniebeans- I want to volunteer and make a difference. I just don't know this organization is making it so difficult and it's not the patients that I don't want to see, it is the people who run the program.

     
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    AlliRae    May 14, 2011  

    I've had similar experiences with groups before, where I ended up so confused and frustrated because I was just trying to do something good, and they are so unhelpful! Maybe you should just go and try it once, it might turn out be really great. You explained why this group seems like the best for you, but are there other second choices if this really doesn't work out? I hope it does work out for you and your dog! 

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    @AlliRae- I have already done three visits. I enjoyed volunteering and so did my dog. But it's impossible to even find out when the visits are and then they seem so mean.  I just want the people in the group to make me feel uncomfortable.

     
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    soon2bhis    December 26, 1999  

    Agh I feel your pain.  I tried to get into the same thing with my dog and there were all these interviews and classes and rules and a FEE to volunteer.  Whaaat?  I did a bit more searching and found some other organizations, but haven't checked them out yet.

    Volunteering should be rewarding and not so frustrating!  Is there someone else you could volunteer for (for the same thing)?  I know that where I used to work if you contacted the specific lodge that the rec. coordinator would get you set up and you could just bring your dog into visit.

     

     

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