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ladies! help. i have problems! i have ordered my 5th shoe yesterday and they just came!!! i need help deciding on which shoes! so the nude with the beading is the shoe i thought i was wearing for the wedding (it's the one my hemming is being altered to) anyway, while looking for the matching clutch for it yesterday... i saw that menbur had a new purple shoe!! oh em gee. my wedding colors are pistachio with purple accent. so instead of buying the clutch to match the nude... i bought this purple one with a matching clutch... now i don't know what shoe!! the purple is suppose to be .25 higher than the nude... and as it turns out when i put them on.. the nude is taller! so i don't know if my hemming is going to get messed up... anyway, which do you like?? do you think i should just stick with the nude since my hemming is for that (i get my dress may 19th) and just get the matching clutch... or go with the purple and hope the dress is ok since it's just a little shorter?

here is the links to them

http://www.endless.com/Menbur-Womens-Nilo-Slingback-Pump/dp/B004AHLZ4E/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&cAsin=B004GCDNIE&fromPage=search&sr=1-4&qid=1305166510179&asins=B0031MB4IQ%2CB0031MAWOS%2CB003O854DI%2CB004GCDNIE%2CB003UV91HE%2CB004G8VU7O%2CB004GCFGN4%2CB003UV92P0%2CB003OA50BW%2CB004EPXGQW%2CB004GCMTM0%2CB004G8M9UQ%2CB004EPX24I%2CB004GK0BA4%2CB004G8RT4W%2CB004EPX3NI%2CB003B3NTN8%2CB004DI6068%2CB003B3NT6K%2CB003IWYQEI%2CB003O854BU%2CB0031MAWRA%2CB004GCLBS8%2CB004B8UWZA%2CB004BZ9CB8%2CB004DI604A%2CB004G8O9V8%2CB003OBXT6O%2CB004EPX3UG%2CB004GCMU4C%2CB004GCFFBM%2CB004AHM002%2CB003OA5DQE%2CB004G8VTMU%2CB004G8VTXE%2CB004EPX26G%2CB003UV91Q0%2CB004G8RXSY%2CB003UV91SI%2CB004G8VUFG%2CB003UV9214%2CB004EPX6LW%2CB0031MAWAM%2CB003WMAGT8%2CB004G8M9L0%2CB004G8M9II%2CB0031QNP3Y%2CB003OA5FFI%2CB004G8O9RM%2CB004EPXM16%2CB003OA506M%2CB004G8TP9Y%2CB003IWZ4T4%2CB003B3NTQA%2CB004EPX6N0%2CB003O853U2%2CB004EPX306%2CB004AHM1TW%2CB004G8VSV2%2CB0031MB3OQ%2CB004G8TRV0%2CB004G8O8F0%2CB004EPX31K%2CB004EPX216%2CB004EPX49Q%2CB004EPXM1Q%2CB004EPX66M%2CB004EPX5EK%2CB003OA4WXY%2CB004EPX48M%2CB003UV92KU%2CB0046LKUTU%2CB003IWZ6FQ%2CB004EPX78E%2CB003WMAHCE%2CB003OA597C%2CB004GCLATS%2CB004EPX4T6%2CB003UV9296%2CB0031Y6ILM%2CB003OA5GSO%2CB004EPX4KA%2CB003B3NTW4%2CB004GCMU3I%2CB004EPX32O%2CB0031MB3M8%2CB003OA52IS%2CB004EPX6IU%2CB004EPXLZI%2CB003WQ9SNO%2CB003IWYQGG%2CB004G8VU1U%2CB003UV91XI%2CB003OA5ATE%2CB003UV92JG%2CB004FPIK2G%2CB004EPX5WM%2CB0031MAV9O%2CB003WMAGOS%2CB004EPX414%2CB003OA4VZS%2CB004FPIK12%2CB004EPX694%2CB0031MB4G8%2CB004G8VQXC%2CB004EPX5U4%2CB004EPX22U%2CB004EPX2XY&asinTitle=Menbur%20Nilo%20Slingback%20Pump&contextTitle=search%20results&clientPageSize=100&node=241745011&sort=relevance-fs-rank&keywords=menbur

http://www.endless.com/Menbur-Womens-Delfiore-Open-Toe-Pump/dp/B004G8O4H2/ref=sr_1_40?ie=UTF8&cAsin=B004G8VUFG&fromPage=search&sr=1-40&qid=1305166510179&asins=B0031MB4IQ%2CB0031MAWOS%2CB003O854DI%2CB004GCDNIE%2CB003UV91HE%2CB004G8VU7O%2CB004GCFGN4%2CB003UV92P0%2CB003OA50BW%2CB004EPXGQW%2CB004GCMTM0%2CB004G8M9UQ%2CB004EPX24I%2CB004GK0BA4%2CB004G8RT4W%2CB004EPX3NI%2CB003B3NTN8%2CB004DI6068%2CB003B3NT6K%2CB003IWYQEI%2CB003O854BU%2CB0031MAWRA%2CB004GCLBS8%2CB004B8UWZA%2CB004BZ9CB8%2CB004DI604A%2CB004G8O9V8%2CB003OBXT6O%2CB004EPX3UG%2CB004GCMU4C%2CB004GCFFBM%2CB004AHM002%2CB003OA5DQE%2CB004G8VTMU%2CB004G8VTXE%2CB004EPX26G%2CB003UV91Q0%2CB004G8RXSY%2CB003UV91SI%2CB004G8VUFG%2CB003UV9214%2CB004EPX6LW%2CB0031MAWAM%2CB003WMAGT8%2CB004G8M9L0%2CB004G8M9II%2CB0031QNP3Y%2CB003OA5FFI%2CB004G8O9RM%2CB004EPXM16%2CB003OA506M%2CB004G8TP9Y%2CB003IWZ4T4%2CB003B3NTQA%2CB004EPX6N0%2CB003O853U2%2CB004EPX306%2CB004AHM1TW%2CB004G8VSV2%2CB0031MB3OQ%2CB004G8TRV0%2CB004G8O8F0%2CB004EPX31K%2CB004EPX216%2CB004EPX49Q%2CB004EPXM1Q%2CB004EPX66M%2CB004EPX5EK%2CB003OA4WXY%2CB004EPX48M%2CB003UV92KU%2CB0046LKUTU%2CB003IWZ6FQ%2CB004EPX78E%2CB003WMAHCE%2CB003OA597C%2CB004GCLATS%2CB004EPX4T6%2CB003UV9296%2CB0031Y6ILM%2CB003OA5GSO%2CB004EPX4KA%2CB003B3NTW4%2CB004GCMU3I%2CB004EPX32O%2CB0031MB3M8%2CB003OA52IS%2CB004EPX6IU%2CB004EPXLZI%2CB003WQ9SNO%2CB003IWYQGG%2CB004G8VU1U%2CB003UV91XI%2CB003OA5ATE%2CB003UV92JG%2CB004FPIK2G%2CB004EPX5WM%2CB0031MAV9O%2CB003WMAGOS%2CB004EPX414%2CB003OA4VZS%2CB004FPIK12%2CB004EPX694%2CB0031MB4G8%2CB004G8VQXC%2CB004EPX5U4%2CB004EPX22U%2CB004EPX2XY&asinTitle=Menbur%20Delfiore%20Open-Toe%20Pump&contextTitle=search%20results&clientPageSize=100&node=241745011&sort=relevance-fs-rank&keywords=menbur

@irishbride2be: it is more blush. they call it nude online though. and i agree with all your points... im so confused. i've texted 3 ppl n they say purple.

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I have to see your dress to decide!

@Miss Sardine:

the dress i tried on at the trunk show... it's too big and too high up... lol so it looks funny

my actual dress when it came... again it's too high up. it should be lower. these ppl don't know how to zip me up. the end of the zip should be right where my waist is

i love how most the comments are for purple... then the poll says otherwise.. lol HELP!!!!!

Before I saw the dress I was gonna vote purple. Now that I saw your dress, I think the nude pair will go better. The bow and bling give them a little kick. I love the color of the purple ones, but they are a little plain to me. Hope we help you.

OH EM GEE ladies! ok I guess I will go with the nudes... but now I'm going to have clutch dilemma because there are so many that matches it exactly by the same designer!!!

http://www.endless.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_6/182-3912180-7592451/?onsale=&showDesigner=&node=241745011&keywords=menbur+clutch&x=0&y=0&sprefix=menbur#__size=100&node=241745011&nodes=241745011&keywords=menbur~~20clutch&sort=relevance-fs-rank&colors=519113011&rnid=519055011&tag=sr_nr_col_519113011

i love the nude ones! i love the bejeweled thingy on top :D

Yeah it's the exact match for the shoe, it it's always looked like a shoulder bag to me and less clutchy?

I like the purple ones better, but if it messes up your hemming and you need to wear the nude ones you could still use the purple clutch since it's your wedding colors

EDIT: I see that you already decided, nvm meee :)

guess what i ended up wearing!!!