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    Mr Scorpio is doing a summer internship in Dallas for the next two months as part of his business school degree.  I just dropped him off at the airport and can't stop crying.  We were in a LDR for two years before moving in together last year when he started school, so we've done this before but it still sucks! Everyone says the 2 months will fly by and I've read several posts on weddingbee about couples who are stuck in LDR's for way longer than 2 months because of jobs, school, etc so I know I shouldn't complain but I miss him. A lot. And being apart now that we're engaged feels a lot harder and different than when we were boyfriend/girlfriend...le siiiiiiigh. Going for a run, hopefully it will make me feel a little bit better, sniffle sniffle...

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    I don't have much to say other than give you bunches of HUGS!!

     
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    Even if you've been LD before, it's so hard to do it again once you get used to seeing your guy every day!  I've totally been there!  Will you be able to visit him while he's in Dallas?  The only advice I have is to keep yourself really busy.  Get a lot of wedding stuff out of the way so that when he comes back you will gave lots of quality time together!  Hopefully the 2 months will fly by!

     
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    AEast    22 August, 2009   Denver, CO

    You'll be just fine! He's doing something that will improve both of your futures right? My honey has been deployed for the last seven months. It's not easy, but it can be done! He gets home in three weeks and we get married in six! I did a "Kiss Jar." Get a jar and fill it with 60 (however many days he's gone) Hershey's Kisses (or your favorite candy) and each day treat yourself to one just like you would treat yourself to one of his kisses. My jar is almost empty! (It is a very big jar and once held about 210 kisses.) Best of luck!

     
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    Mine left for what was supposed to be 2 months for a trial run with a job in DC (Pre-engagement) and I cried and cried and cried and cried....well, you get the picture. It was so hard when he left but I knew I had to let him decide what was best for him and that we'd make it thru anything! Look on the bright side...you have a set date when he'll be back!! And mine came back early........ must have come to his senses!!

     
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    @AEast:  The kiss jar is a great idea!  I am definitely doing that when Mr. K gets deployed!

     
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    mlkeysock    September 1, 2007   near Philadelphia, PA

    Oh, nothing compares to LD...even if you've done it before. I think it's even worse when you've been spoiled by having him around for a little while, then you have to do LD again. I can't offer you much except for lots of hugs! Come talk to us when you're feeling sad and lonely! Or read one of the funny blogs...like the one about most embarassing moments at weddings Waaaah! FI just left for 2 months...Need Hugs :  wedding long distance relationship miss my fiance Icon Biggrin

     
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    thanks girlies! Means a lot to hear support, it's so hard! AEast, GREAT IDEA (esp since I love candy, it's even in my profile, ha!)...welp, 1 day down, 81 to go...

     
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    Miss Marshmallow    August 1, 2009  

    well - my FI was in Costa Rica for a couple months.  We both kept journals for each other and exchanged them upon his return.  I also visited...and hope you can visit your fiance, too!!

     
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    Poor girl!  Huggggggggsssss!

    Me and my guy were in a LDR for a year and I sure wouldn't want to have to go back to that.  But at least you have an end goal in place.  You can do it!  Maybe you can look at it as your final time to enjoy your bachelorette freedom!  Total control of the remove, sleeping in the center of the bed, having the bathroom to yourself.  Small pleasures, but it's something!

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS!

    T.T Being without your FI sucks.... *HUGS* 

     

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