(Closed) Waaaah! FI just left for 2 months…Need Hugs

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I don’t have much to say other than give you bunches of HUGS!!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018 - The Grand Old House, Grand Cayman

Even if you’ve been LD before, it’s so hard to do it again once you get used to seeing your guy every day!  I’ve totally been there!  Will you be able to visit him while he’s in Dallas?  The only advice I have is to keep yourself really busy.  Get a lot of wedding stuff out of the way so that when he comes back you will gave lots of quality time together!  Hopefully the 2 months will fly by!

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

You’ll be just fine! He’s doing something that will improve both of your futures right? My honey has been deployed for the last seven months. It’s not easy, but it can be done! He gets home in three weeks and we get married in six! I did a "Kiss Jar." Get a jar and fill it with 60 (however many days he’s gone) Hershey’s Kisses (or your favorite candy) and each day treat yourself to one just like you would treat yourself to one of his kisses. My jar is almost empty! (It is a very big jar and once held about 210 kisses.) Best of luck!

Post # 6
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Worker bee

Mine left for what was supposed to be 2 months for a trial run with a job in DC (Pre-engagement) and I cried and cried and cried and cried….well, you get the picture. It was so hard when he left but I knew I had to let him decide what was best for him and that we’d make it thru anything! Look on the bright side…you have a set date when he’ll be back!! And mine came back early…….. must have come to his senses!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018 - The Grand Old House, Grand Cayman

@AEast:  The kiss jar is a great idea!  I am definitely doing that when Mr. K gets deployed!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

Oh, nothing compares to LD…even if you’ve done it before. I think it’s even worse when you’ve been spoiled by having him around for a little while, then you have to do LD again. I can’t offer you much except for lots of hugs! Come talk to us when you’re feeling sad and lonely! Or read one of the funny blogs…like the one about most embarassing moments at weddings

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

well – my FI was in Costa Rica for a couple months.  We both kept journals for each other and exchanged them upon his return.  I also visited…and hope you can visit your fiance, too!!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Poor girl!  Huggggggggsssss!

Me and my guy were in a LDR for a year and I sure wouldn’t want to have to go back to that.  But at least you have an end goal in place.  You can do it!  Maybe you can look at it as your final time to enjoy your bachelorette freedom!  Total control of the remove, sleeping in the center of the bed, having the bathroom to yourself.  Small pleasures, but it’s something!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS!

T.T Being without your FI sucks…. *HUGS* 

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