Post # 1
Hi. I stumbled on this website one day while websurfing to plan a wedding I haven’t been asked to have yet. Thank goodness my boyfriend doesn’t use my computer. He’d be so nervous. Just thought I would say I am waiting too and patience is not a strong characteristic of mine. I was doing great with it until I went to the GYN the other day and he told me he’d “be nervous” at 42. He put a number on it. I was doing great without the timeline.
Post # 4
Thanks for the welcome. I thought maybe it would help to have an outlet for this, might keep me from pressuring my bf.
Post # 5
Welcome! Hope your stay here is short!
(Love your date. That’s my birthday.lol)
Post # 6
welcome!! i feel your pain… waiting is tough!
Post # 7
welcome! i found this site, and it helps me not to pester him as well!
my issue is my SO is 41 and never been married..so there is some fear there for him as well! once we moved in together i told him that i would NOT be somebodys “girlfriend” forever! he is aware of this and seems to accept it.
i was married (15 years) before and it kills me that i am just waiting on SO now…i feel sort of like he may not think i’m “the one”..even tho every other action shows me different.
we have discussed rings, destination weddings (now out because he has never been married, he wants lots of his fam and friends there)
so, here i am, drooling over the ring section here, living vicariously thru all the wonderful bees that are sharing in all things weddings!!
hopefully, we will all be on other posts soon 😉