Post # 1
I need some advice! I know my ring is coming, Fiance keeps saying to be patient and don’t ruin the moment but I’m so anxious. I feel like it’s never going to happen even though I know the ring is currently being made.
Did anyone else have this issue? I can’t talk to my gf’s so I figured I would turn to the Bees!
Thanks for any advice 😉
Post # 3
Try finding something else to wait for. That new book coming out? Movie, game? That way you have a solid count down to something that will hopefully ease your mind about the ring.
But it IS being made and it WILL happen. Just remember that the ring is only half the battle, he may still have to take months to plan the actual proposal (which is ok because it’s his event too and some proposals are hard to plan)
Post # 4
It can be hard to wait but hang in there. : )
Post # 5
I feel your pain. We got the ring, I SAW it, tried it on, and then he put it away so he can do a proper proposal, but I have no idea when! Our wedding is all planned and in the works haha! We always do things backwards hehe!
Post # 6
@nickelpickle75: Me too! Kinda… We talk about it all the time and we send emails back and forth about wedding stuff (invitations and dresses I like). I even have a folder in my gmail account with all of the stuff. Grrr! Hahaha, I know it’s coming I’m just super impatient.
Looks like you are getting married soon too! Exciting! We are thinking Jan of 2012, we wanted this Nov but the dates are taken for the venue we want and Dec is booked for holiday parties, boo. Oh well, more time to plan! 🙂
Post # 7
I know what you mean by waiting. The FI’s bro got engaged to a girl he was dating almost 2 years and I had to wait 4 years!!! I’m a little bitter because I feel I should have been the first one, but whatever. I’m engaged now, but it was horrible waiting and waiting. I did other things to keep it off my mind so try doing that, I know easier said than done.
Post # 8
Hang in there 🙂 It’ll be soon.
Post # 9
I had the same issue! I showed my Fiance rings I liked and it took him 2 months to propose! I felt like it was never going to happen. I actually started getting a little mad after a while. LOL!
I’m pretty sure I drove my best friend nuts. I constantly griped about how he hadn’t propsed yet, and poor thing, she knew it was coming, but couldn’t say anything!
It will be ok and worth the wait! I’m sure it’ll happen very soon!!
Post # 10
@heather5743: Oh, good! I’m not the only one 🙂 I’m glad you got yours!
Thank you for all of your support!
I have just been waiting forever (it feels like) and he said he had ordered it when in fact he ordered it a week later. I think I was just really frustrated. I’m like a private detective and he doesn’t know that I know when he ordered it.
I hate suspense so much I ruin my own surprises! Lame :/
Post # 11
I feel the SAME way! It has been better lately, but when we first talked about it, I felt like it would never happen. I drove my boyfriend crazy and I am sure everyone else around me crazy. What helped me a little is that he finally gave me a promise ring. I am very happy to know that I am not the only one!