Waiting Frustrations… *sigh*

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@limegreenchili:  Welcome!!! Honestly, I know it’s probably not want you want to hear, but I would really try to SIU just incase he really is wanting it to be a surprise! He promised a proposal by spring 2014 so while maybe you don’t understand the wait, he could possibly have something really sweet planned.

Or maybe he will propose before then, but if you keep talking about it and bringing it up and asking about it (and if he wants it to be suprise) he may start to feel like there’s never an opportunity to do it!

He has the ring. He promised a proposal by spring 2014. You said you two were on the same page timeline wise, so I think you should really try to respect that and keep quiet 🙂

I can’t imagine how hard this must be! Especially since you KNOW he has the ring!! (That would be so hard for me!) And it’s great that he is so excited! Good Luck!!

Post # 5
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172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@limegreenchili:  I hear ya!! And whenver you feel frustrated, just come on here and vent!

And in regards to discussing engagements/weddings, you’re obviously allowed to discuss something if you SO brings it up, but just “play it cool” Try and not probe for hints / ask questions etc… 🙂 For example, when my SO brings up marriage I tell him I’m very excited that he’s thinking about it and can’t wait for our future together. And then we usually move onto another topic 🙂

Stay strong!! You can do this!!

Post # 6
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264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@limegreenchili:  if you accept that it won’t happen on the trip, then if it does, it WILL be a surprise, and if it doesn’t, you won’t feel left down…and when it eventually does happen, your SO will really surprise you and it will mean much more than if you were tense and “waiting” for it am entire trip. Hope that makes sense! Good luck!

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