Post # 1
Waiting for a proposal has gave me the weirdest dreams… Last night I dreamt That my SO propsoed to me at home in bed. surprising me as I woke up with coffee and a Ring. I was totally happy… Until I seen the ring. The diamond was grey and did not sparkle. I remember feeling let down in my dream but accepted it and was happy about the engagment. The ring was also size wrong, way to huge for my finger, so as I was running around telling people about are engagment and showing off my ring it fell off my finder and i accidentatlly steped on it and the ring broke into two pieces1 I was mortified and trying to hide from my SO in fear that I had broke the ring he had just gave me. I dont really remebring a end to my dream..and woke up.
Am i having ring fears? haha
Post # 3
sorry for spelling mistakes , typed it quick at work and did not proof read. I meant to say ‘finger’ and stepped’
Post # 4
Haha I’ve had dreams like that before. If it makes you feel any better about your dream self breaking the ring, I had a boyfriend in high school give me a ring that was 4 sizes too big, but I wore it anyways. About an hour after he gave it to me I accidentally flushed it down the toilet.
Post # 6
@MissBoPeep: Bahaha that’s great
I’ve also had ugly ring dreams nightmares. They’re no fun.
Post # 7
@MissBoPeep: You just made my day. I laughed out loud and everyone looked at me!
I’ve had a couple bad ring dreams, too! You aren’t alone!
Post # 8
I can laugh about it now, but at the time I was mortified! I had to tell my first ever real boyfriend that I flushed his gift. Whoops.
Post # 9
No bad ring dreams but I woke up with a start last night after having an in-dream row with my SO 🙁
Post # 10
Ahahaha I have had a few of those also….I say yes and am so excited until he opens the ring box. Then I feel guilty for my reaction- both in the dream and when I wake up lol.
Post # 11
I’ve had dreams like that too. One time I dreamt that he gave me a plain bronze-coloured ring with dangly bits hanging from it. It was unbelievably hideous, and I was so relieved when I woke up haha 😀
Post # 12
hey your dreams all seem like my reality! My boyfriend gave me a ring just for no reason, i guess in place of a engagement ring becuase he is not there yet.
But this seems like the perfect place to vent about it! so here I go….it’s way too big, but I wear it anyway on my middle finger and well the little gems (that he calls diamonds) in it….keep falling out, they are so small there is no way we could ever find them. The stone is an ugly green and quite hideous not to mention the now new holes in it from where the little gems used to be. ugh.
i wear it every single day though just because it’s the only piece of jewelry he has ever given me . luckily it’s so big it flips around so 90% of the time all anyone can see is the silver band and luckly nobody has asked me about it or looked at it too closely. but sigh…i can’t wait to replace the thing with a real engagement ring!!!
Post # 13
I think it’s normal, a few bees having posted about nightmare proposal/ring dream scenarios! Don’t think I’ve had one lately, except for not getting proposed to at all.. and living like a spinster alone with many, many cats..
Post # 14
I’ve had waiting/ring dreams.
Most recently- It was an amazing, romantic, awesome proposal, we’re talkin’ carriage ride to the hot air baloon ride, then the baloon brought us up to a cabin over looking the mountains where dinner was waiting and rose petals everywhere, and then he pulled out a plain band.. But like a MEN’S plain gold wedding band, and it was huge?! I was like “umm, what?” haha I don’t remember what else happened. I woke up and told SO and he laughed. Very weird and RANDOM?! LoL.
**Oh I’d like to add I do not expect any of that at all, or wouldn’t say ‘yes’ to a plain band, as long as it wasn’t a men’s size 12 that 2 fingers fit into ! 😉 lol