(Closed) Waiting Bee in dilemma!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Well, I don’t think you should tell him you know about the ring at a family member’s house. But if you are having a rough time and you want to talk about it, I don’t see why you can’t be open and honest about it. You can confide in him that, it’s really silly, but it bothers you that people assume that you and your boyfriend aren’t in a committed relationship. You can ask him if he ever feels like that. You can ask him how he would respond to that situation or how he thinks you should.  That way you aren’t demanding to get married or anything, but leading the conversation towards commitment in the future. You can even emphasize that you are committed to him and looking forward to a future together. It’s definitely awkward when you feel like “just a girlfriend.” one guy I dated had an obnoxious mother who told him that he was single even though we had dated over a year. He said he was not single and that he was taken. She said he’s single on his taxes so he is single untilthat changes. Ouch!

Post # 4
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11352 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

How did you come to discover this information about the ring?

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