Waiting, but not "waiting, waiting?"

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: What is your "waiting" status?
    Officially waiting : (19 votes)
    49 %
    Waiting, but not "waiting, waiting" : (16 votes)
    41 %
    Not waiting at all! : (4 votes)
    10 %
    Not waiting at all! - I'm married : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    172 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    @EyeLoveKitties:  Hey there! I can totally relate!..I’m on the “waiting list” but I’m not “waiting, waiting” (does that make sense?) We’ve been together for 4 years (I’m 26 and he’s 31) I know it will happen when it happens and as for right now, I’m very content with where my SO and I are at (I feel like we’re better than ever as well) So..definitely not counting down the days.

    I know this is a “wedding website” but you can learn so much about relationships through the other bees on here. I’ve only been on here for a couple of weeks and I’ve already learned so much! It’s really nice to get some outside perspective sometimes..or even just to see that there are a lot of other people out there that are in similiar circumstances..it’s really nice.

    Especially since none of my friends are really we’re I’m at in life so it’s nice to relate.

    There are a lot of other bees that are in long distance relationships too on here. I don’t know how you bees do it, you’re a lot stronger than I am that’s for sure! 🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    2052 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I voted waiting but not ‘waiting, waiting’.  LOL.  I am waiting for us to get engaged, move, and start thinking about things in the future.

    SO and I have discussed getting married, and it’s going to happen. 

    I came to this website because we were going to get engaged a year ago and married next summer…and then SO has had to push back his graduation date 3 TIMES and yeah, it’s caused a little anxiety.  I’m not near as anxious as I once was though! 

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    817 posts
    Busy bee

    Meee!!  I’m on the waiting list, too, but I’m not anxious about it or anything.  I know I’ll be “waiting” for at least a year, and I’m fine with that for a few reasons. First off, we haven’t been together that long.  It hasn’t even been a year yet, so I’d feel pretty stupid if I was hounding him for a ring every day.  Also, he wants to be able to afford a nice ring for me.  NOT my idea, I have even told him about moissanite as an alternative (it’s so pretty!!).  He wants to be in a place financially where he feels like he can support and take care of us.  This will happen late next year at the earliest, when he will be completes a program to jumpstart his career.

     

    Soo I guess I will really start waiting waiting around this time next year.

     

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