- 4 years ago
Ok everyone I found weddingbee a few days ago and I could use some unbiased honest advice. Sorry this is a rant…
I have been with by BF for 7 years. and we have been seriously talking about marriage for the last 2 because prior to that we knew we wanted to accomplish our professional goals of graduating college (we went back to school together) and finding our dream jobs. All goals have been meet and then some and we are both so happy with our choice of returning to school.
SO now starts the drama. my birthday was this June and 4 close people to me including his mom and my mom. thought the ring was coming for my birthday. I couldn’t wait and I was over the moon. My real bday was on a Tuesday he asked if we could move my dinner to Thursday because he couldn’t get a reservation at my favorite restaurant I had no problem with that. That Monday rolls around the day before my bday we get a call from his dad, My BF brother proposed to his GF THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY! they have been together for a year! I almost died I was so crushed and the look on my bf face didn’t help anything. needless to say after 7 years that was the most awkward birthday dinner and no ring. I’m still devastated.
We are going on vaca this Dec and I think it’s coming then but I just feel like the mood has been burst. And it’s just not going to be as special as it should have been and it just looks like an afterthought now. Even my BF isnt happy about the whole situation.
So am I crazy and over thinking this. or was his bother at fault?