- 3 years ago
My boyfriend “unofficially” proposed on September 21st. I think it was just the moment we were alone and he randomly got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes but now we’re only secretly engaged and without a ring. I know for a fact that he had intended to propose for real this month and with a ring and he wants my parents blessing first. Well he lost his job in August so that’s been put on hold. So now I don’t know when or how he will actually propose again with a ring this time and this time it can go public. Its driving me crazy at times because he won’t tell me if he already had the ring before he lost his job or if he’s trying to get another job to buy one. Its getting harder waiting because his really good friend just got married two weeks ago and now they have all that freedom that I’m craving. Just to get to be with my man 24/7 is what I want. I mean it’s not even the v ring I need or want. I just want to be able to share our excitement with my family and have fun planning with others. Has anyone else gone through this?