- 4 years ago
- Wedding: July 2015 - Gardens
Three months ago my partner of 5 years asked me if he proposed would I say yes, of course I would!!! It came as a shock as he had always been very anti marriage but over time he changed his mind and really wanted too. He told me to find a ring I wanted, I chose a morganite with a diamond halo set in rose gold, we’re not well off with him being a disability carer for his mother and myself doing my advanced diploma for the next three years, so we’ve been paying it off via etsy and it’s due to arrive next month! He wanted to plan a special proposal before the ring comes even so we bought a cheap diamond ring (it’s a bunch of chips basicly) and we were going away for two days last weekend and he was going to propose on a boat etc…but a few days before we were due to leave I had to take temporary custody of my older sisters baby so we had to cancel. With all the stress of family troubles and having to push back our engagement I’m so upset. I asked him is he just going to wait till next month now, but he said no he still wants to do it early he’s just trying to think of another special way now as he dosnt want to just do it at home or anything, even though I couldn’t care less were it happens as I’m too excited!
I’m not great at waiting for things and I hateee surprises as they make me painic! Now I have no idea when it’s going to happen! I wouldn’t mind if he just wanted to wait for our real ring to come in the mail since it’s only next month but argh, just going slowly insane. It’s already been three months of me having to keep it to myself that we are getting engaged (everyone he knows is going to be SO shocked).
I’ll be wearing a stack and any bands I get in the future I’ll always be swapping things in and out because I like to change things up.
On a awesome note he has said that I can get multiple engagement rings over time as he knows I like to change things so often being in the fashion industry, I’ve already decided down the track I’d like a 2-3 ct round mossinite and then I’ve always wanted a emerald ring too.
This is what my stack will be until my morganite comes in then I’ll remove the chip ring and put that in its place.
Someone calm me from the long wait!