Post # 1
Sometimes I hate being a military SO. FH is getting reccomended for a course he needs for promotion. He will most likely be in the top 5 in his department on the ship once the yearly rankings come out. Im really proud especially since he has only been posted to this unit since dec (but he was off all of Jan for our daughters birth). The problem is that the course has a possibility of being the same time as our wedding, hopefully he gets on a later one or they give him the weekend off. I knew this was a possibility but now that it is seriously likely its so frustring. Thankfully we have mostly frendors so changing the date wont be a problem, the only possible problem is our church. They will use our deposit for another day if they can, but we wont find out if he is on this course until the end of the fiscal year ( begining of April). Rant over.
Post # 3
- Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn
@Mrscdnnavywife: Ugh, I feel you. I’m terrified that I’m going to lose all of my deposits if my fiance ends up going for his Warrior Leader Course in September, which is likely. He needs it to get promoted but even he says he can wait if it means we can have our wedding on time. I’m crossing my fingers for you!
Post # 4
- Wedding: October 2014 - Legare Waring House
@Mrscdnnavywife: I (sort of) feel your pain… Thought I wouldn’t have these things to contend with dating, now marrying, a prior servicemember…thought wrong! We had settled on a date, only to find out that his entire former squadron, including at least one GM would be deploying for 6 months beginning 3 months before the date we’d chosen…long story short, wedding has been pushed back 6 months. Luckily, no deposits other than our planner, and she was able to be flexible.
Congratulations to your FH, and I hope everything works out!
Post # 5
Aw don’t get upset until its set in stone, maybe you’re worrying for nothing. I hope it works out!!