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This is the worst day ever. I went into have my second ultrasound at 8 weeks and the baby has not grown since 6 weeks. There is still a heartbeat but it's only 100 which is very low for 8 weeks. I basically have to wait for the baby to pass or have a d&c. I don't even know if you can have a d&c when the baby's heart is still beating. Honestly, I just want to get this over with but my doctor is now out of town so I have to go through the holidays knowing that a baby is dying inside of me. I am just wallowing in self pity - this has been a long road for us and we were so excited to finally get that bfp.
oh my goodness..I am so sorry! Please surround yourself with support and just do whatever you need to do to cope....
My thoughts and prayers for you in your family..
I am SO sorry for what you are going through right now. Unfortunately I see this type of thing weekly at my job, and I've been through a miscarriage myself.
I don't even know any right words to say, or how to make you feel better. The best I can offer are my thoughts and prayers.
Please let us know any updates if you can.
Wow, sorry you are going through this. Today has been a rough day for several Hive pregnancies and my heart goes out to you all. (((HUGS))) I will keep you in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry. I know how tough it can be to wait it out. I will keep you in my thoughts.
@missbbc: I'm so very sorry to hear that you are going through this. Sending lots of thoughts and support your way. xo
Words fail me. I am so sorry.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. PM me if you need to talk.
I don't know what to say to ease you pain, but my T&P's are with you.
I wish I had the words to ease your pain. Sending you the tightest of cyber ((hugs)). I will be praying for you. :(
I'm so sorry. Big hugs. Please surround yourself with people who love and support you.
I'm so sorry to hear this....I will be sending lots of prayers your way today.
I'm so, so sorry for you. I can't imagine the pain. My thoughts are with you. Sending hugs. :(
@missbbc: oh my gosh.. I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. this just happened to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago, she knew she was losing the baby. And she had already told everyone.. It was heartbreaking and so awful. I can't imagine the pain, for a woman I feel like it's losing part of you, losing your child. sending you a big hug.
@missbbc: oh my gosh.. I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. this just happened to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago, she knew she was losing the baby. And she had already told everyone.. It was heartbreaking and so awful. I can't imagine the pain, for a woman I feel like it's losing part of you, losing your child. sending you a big hug.
Oh honey, I'm so very very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
I am going through the exact same thing right now. Except, at today's ultrasound I am 7 1/2 weeks and I have an empty sac, we never saw a heartbeat at all. I also discovered my doctor will not be in the office again until January 4. If you want to talk feel free to PM me.
((hugs)) Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers... I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this.
@missbbc: I am so sorry... :( that's so difficult. My thoughts are with you:(
Oh my this made my heart ache. Sending you lots of love...this must be so hard.
This broke my heart. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I hope you are able to surround yourself with friends and family who are there for you. You'll be in my thoughts.
(((Hugs))) I'm so sorry for you and your husband. I've been there and it is so hard and just so, so sad. I do know what you are going through and know the heartache. Please, please PM me if you want to chat. ((Hugs)))
I am so sorry oyu are going through this. I went through the same thing at Thanksgiving time. We are all here for you if have questions or need to vent.
@missbbc: I am so, so sorry to hear this and can't imagine what you must be going through. Just know that you can always come here to find support. I will be praying for you and your LO. *hug*
I'm so so sorry. I know firsthand how awful it is. I just waited over a month to miscarry naturally, and just started to yesterday. It hits 10x harder with it being Christmas week. Please please PM me if you need to talk to someone going through it as well. Take care of yourself.
I am so sorry :( I am praying that you ahve the strength to get through this. We are all here with you. xox
Thank you all for your comments. It honestly means a lot - esp since the only people that know about this in real life in my hubby and parents. I have been reading and re-reading your comments since last night but just haven't had the energy to comment back until now. This waiting just sucks. I talked to my doctor again last night and she pretty much said that there is no hope. I am trying to get another ultrasound and confirm no heartbeat either tomorrow or early next week and then schedule the D&C for the same day. Since my doctor is away, it will be with her partner at the practice who I have not even met. But, I just want to get this over with. I really don't want to wait till after New Years - that would be a even more horrible start to 2012.
@Magdalena: and @MrsMaine: I am so very sorry that you both are going through the same thing. I wouldn't wish this upon anyone. I always knew that statisically there was a chance for a miscarraige but I had no idea it would suck this much to deal with. Going from such a high to such a low is awful.
My doctor also said I would have to wait 2 cycles to try again. That seems like forever.
I am so sorry for what you are going through! I myself had the same thing with the exception of the hearbeat! I went in for my second ultrasound I was 11 weeks and the sac had not grown since 5 1//2 weeks. I chose to let it pass myself (DNC scares me)
The biggest thing to remember is allow yourself to grieve! Its so normal I know how upset you are right (((Hugs))) I had a healthy baby boy who is almost a year old now! Just remember sweetie your not alone!
Omg I am so very sorry. :( I went through something very similair last year. I started spotting on December 24th (Christmas eve) but couldn't see the doctor until January 5th. The baby lost its heart beat on January 9th so it took a while. Our baby was also the size of a 6 week old at 8 weeks, 4 days.
I hate knowing that other women have to go through this as it is one of the hardest things to go through. Esp during the holidays. :( I am sending so many giant hugs your way! As hard as it is right now, please remember in time things will be better. You may never forget, but it will be better. For now, surround your self with loved ones & if you need to cry, cry! Let it all out. That is the only thing that kept me sane. I just cried & cried some more until the point my eyes literally swelled up & I thought I was having a allergic reaction to something... But the crying really helped!
Everyone gets through these things in their own way. Whatever you do keep in mind when you are ready, even if its not anytime soon you can try again. Lots of love, Mrs.Estep.
I'm really sorry : (
I had a natural miscarriage at 6 weeks (so, earlier along than you)...it started on its own and finished on its own. It felt like a really bad period with some bad cramping and heavy bleeding. No contractions though.
I hope your 2012 starts off better.
This has to be the worst thing I've ever heard, I'm so sorry!
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