Post # 1
Has anyone else noticed that while they’re waiting to TTC there has been more than a few “Oopsie Babies” pop up?
To better explain, I’ve been seeing quite a few pregnancy or even baby (didn’t know about the pregnancy) announcements in the last few months with parents that aren’t married or engaged or some that aren’t even living together yet.
I guess it gives me that twinge of “That should be me! We’re married, have a home, are stable, all the things needed for an LO!”
Not to knock any of these folks! Maybe some were actually planned (though I know for a fact that most weren’t) as at least one of the couples was recently engaged and bought a house together. It might be the fact that its so soon for them and I’m having to wait…
I’ll just keep relaxing in my pj’s with my pup than…
Post # 3
As long as they are loved and wanted right!
Post # 4
@CherryWaves: I totally feel the same way!!!
Post # 5
@CherryWaves: I’ve noticed a lot of those lately too.
I do feel like a lot of the “oopsy babies” aren’t entirely oppsies though.. I think people like saying it was a surprise or they weren’t trying like it is some kind of fertility competition. If someone is on birth control, or using condroms consistantly and gets KU then yeah I would consider that a big surprise for sure! But I always wonder about how many of those surprises happen to be people just being lazy with their BC methods and in reality their bodies have been trying to get them pregnant for awhile now without their minds consent. ha.
Either way, a baby is a baby so it is something to celebrate!