Post # 1
Is there anyone that is not living with their Fiance and are waiting until you are married to do so? Howard and I are not living together and I just feel that we should wait until we are married to do so. He’s always saying that he can’t wait until we are in the same house. I am so scared for this to happen because I am a neat freak and I might drive him carzy with this! He claims that he can handle anything I throw at him. lol! Am I the only one waiting untl married to live together?
Post # 3
Nope. We aren’t living together. We live about 45 minutes apart and I won’t move to the house until we’re married. It’s not necessarily for reasons like cleanliness but for our own personal, religious reasons. To each their own.
Post # 4
Nope!! We are waiting too…I already bought a house and my parents are super conservative…although we stay together every night we are not living together until we are married…not really my choice but a respect the parents thing…but we are slowly putting our new house together for when we can live together!
Post # 5
We don’t live together either.
Post # 6
We don’t live together and won’t until we are married.
Post # 7
My Fiance and I won’t be living together until after marriage. It’s hard but it was the right decision for us.
Post # 8
I don’t live with my Finace. Even our Catholic priest was shocked when we said that (maybe because we’re in our 30s?).
Post # 9
We currently do not plan on living together but we may have an over 2 year engagement so idk…….
Post # 10
We don’t live together either. I think it adds way more excitement to the wedding and a true feeling of “being married”
Post # 11
We also don’t live together, and don’t plan to until we are married. We both have personal and religious reasons for this, but I also think that it will make the transition more exciting for me!
Post # 12
We don’t live together, not religious, just personal reasons on both of our parts. He’s lived with someone and I prefer not to, at least until I am engaged. I can work with that. LOL
Some people say you don’t know a person until you live with them, but I don’t think there is anything SO alarming that living with them after marriage will make you leave…unless it’s something they will go to jail for, I would think.
But then, when my guy stays over, I want to kill him for putting wet towels in the hamper, so he’s lucky I still want to marry him.LOL
Post # 13
We have never lived together either – and we are both in our 30’s. We will be moving in together in about 2 weeks though, which is about 4 months before the wedding – but this is because I’m moving to California from Connecticut…
very excited for the long distance part of our relationship to be over. We’ve been LD for about 4 months…
Post # 14
We are waiting.. I am living in the house be bought until the wedding and then he will move in. It is so lonely, but he is over a lot. Makes me get really excited for when he does get to move in 🙂
Post # 15
I wouldn’t move in with Fiance until we were engaged. I think that living together just takes a lot of patience and compromise. We really have had a super easy time of it compared to a lot of stories I’ve heard… but that doesn’t mean we haven’t had to work at it a little. 🙂
Post # 16
We are waiting for marriage as well!
I can’t wait to live with him though! (even though, like you I know I will go crazy with his less than perfect cleaning habits!)