(Closed) Advice? I'm going crazy since we bought the ring!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 5
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196 posts
Blushing bee

My SO took me to buy the ring last month and is waiting for it to be made. I’m sure they told him 6-8 weeks, but he won’t tell me when he’s going to pick it up. I really want to know but at the same time I don’t want to ruin anything he’s going to plan. He told me he’s going to plan several dates for us and then randomly propose on one of them. I’m skeptical because he is absolutely terrible at advanced planning!

Anyway, all I can say is keep yourself busy! Read posts on here, write in a journal, focus on work or school, do you nails! Just don’t dwell on it and let him take his time!

Post # 8
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232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That’s so exciting MissComicBook! I’m sure he won’t make you wait too long. He’s probably excited too, I’d imagine. I know it’s a futile effort to take your mind off things when all this is so close, but if you can distract yourself with a hobby? If it doesn’t work, maybe you can just let yourself get excited in private and just embrace it? If you’ve been holding out on wedding stuff, maybe get a magazine or have a wedding movie marathon by yourself or with a discreet lady friend? Sometimes I think it’s best to give in to how you feel.

Post # 10
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232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Ah that sounds like me too- an impatient planner. I’m sorry your friends aren’t able to relate. Where I’m from it’s pretty common for people to get married young. But you have people here who can relate so we’ll be excited for you! 

Post # 13
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232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Do you know what the ring looks like?

 

Post # 15
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1144 posts
Bumble bee

I can only imagine what you’re going through! I am going crazy wondering and I know he hasn’t picked out a ring or bought one or anything. I think I’d rather now know so I don’t worry or drive myself more nuts! Stay positive! Focus on you a bit more and focus on building an even better realtionship with your SO!

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