(Closed) Waiting update

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Just try not to scare him away in the meantime . . . .  Guys get all funny about the commitment sometimes.  Even though he’s talking about wedding stuff with you – actually proposing might be a totally different thing for him.  Does he really want to get married as much as you do, or is he just humoring you to make things in the relationship smoother? 

Sounds mean, sorry, but some guys are odd about stuff like this.

Post # 4
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

My boyfriend and I are in the same boat. For us, it’s waiting more for financial stability than for the right “moment” (although he’s set on creating the perfect proposal). My advice is to let him guide the wedding talk. That way, you can be sure you’re not pressuring him (unintentionally of course), and giving him the space might help him move it along a little. When I stopped talking about weddings, my SO practically picked out our colors the next month. Sometimes guys just need to come about things in their own time and way.

Congratulations on being so close 🙂

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