- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
So I have been on here forever and up until this point that I could wait until he was ready and felt no need to rush things. I have researched all our options and feel well informed about what is available in the area. I have had lots of trouble coming up with a solution between traditional weddings and family only wedding. My real hurdle has been finding a venue and keeping the costs as low as possible.
Suddenly the other day, it clicked what I could do. I have the whole thing planned. Unfortunately I don’t have a ring, which means I can’t discuss with my parents or his parents and make sure they like it and its a good date. I can’t start putting down deposits because I don’t know if that was a really bad choice because that weekend is BlahBlahBlah. I do actually know it is mothers day, which means maybe there is a good chance people won’t book it before I can. The date itself could change, but I really want this particular date because it is my parents anniversary. I am for sure set on this plan because it is the most cost efficient and stress free plan. (other than booking it, arg)
I know there isn’t much for you girls to comment on, I just needed to organize my thoughts and get them out there. Mr. QP is completely aware of how I feel and where I am stuck with planning. He is all for everything I have planned so far. I don’t want to force him into proposing, but at the same time it would help out a lot if he did it soon. I’m visiting him next weekend and I am going to be very discouraged if it doesn’t happen.