Waiting.. waiting….

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
Member
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

He’s had the ring for like 6 months and won’t just propose already?! I can’t blame you from being agitated.. yikes. I wonder what his problem is.

Post # 4
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1843 posts
Buzzing bee

@mia_amelia90:  sucks. I can relate. SO is nervous about engagement and marriage with me having no income right nOw. This will change this very month as i work on my own and sometimes there’s nothing but everything comes at ince. It is just a matter of doing some serious budgeting. I hooe you get healthy soon and back on your feet! And your ring of couRse! Lol

Post # 5
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641 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

What’s wrong with proposing to you and giving you the ring NOW? Why do you have to wait until the end of the year? Just because he proposes to you doesn’t mean you guys have to get married quick-smart. My FI proposed to me over a year ago. I had lost my job, had no clue what I was going to do, we lived with his parents and he was supporting me. That didn’t stop him from proposing. We both knew that we’d get married when we could afford it but him proposing was his way of showing his commitment to me, to us. Fast-forward to today and I have a job, am studying full-time, planned the wedding and we’ve got a year to go.

My point is is that, just because your circumstances aren’t ideal at the moment, it shouldn’t mean putting off your engagement. He’s got the ring, he knows he wants to marry you, so why not get engaged now and get married later?

Post # 9
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641 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@mia_amelia90:  Oh Lord, I’d be going nuts if I knew he had the ring and was dragging the chain. Maybe talk to him and ask him what his reasoning is. In reality, when you’re married, there may be times just as tough as what you’re going through but do you put your life on hold? Hell no!

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