Post # 1
Ok sorry this is kinda a rant, but I am SO TIRED OF WAITING!
My FH and I have been dating for 4 years as of next week. Honestly, we feel like we are already engaged and married, but unfortunately, we are neither. Both of us are 19, but I’ll be 20 in a couple of months. I told FH that we could get engaged when I was so 20 so that 1) We are a little bit financially safe and 2) We don’t get the “You’re SO young!” from everybody! After we get engaged, we have to wait another 2 years to be married since I have 2 more years of college left. It’s just very frustrating that we have to wait a few more months to be engaged and then another 2 years to be married. We are so tired of waiting, but that’s all we can do I guess…Ok end of rant.
Post # 3
Waiting can definately be really frustrating sometimes. But at least you know it’s coming soon! I’ll also be engaged and plan a wedding while going to school and I’m pretty sure a long engagement will be a blessing for me, hopefully it will be for you too! And you’ll probably still hear the “you’re so young” comments, but as long as you know he’s the one then who cares how old you are. I’m 22 and I know I’ll get the being young comments as well but I don’t mind, I am young, haha.
Just stay strong, it’ll happen before you know it!
Post # 4
19 is very young. If you got married now, you wouldn’t even be able to drink a glass or wine or drink champagne!
I would want to get engaged by 21. Shoot for that goal!
Post # 5
@Purple_Possum: Thanks! We already get the “you’re so young!” comments, but lately we have been getting “when are you guys getting married?!” It’s just frustrating that we have to wait so long! haha 🙂
@tfm: We planned to marry when we are 22 so we will be able to drink-no worries! But I know we will be financially stable in a few months. FH will be an EMT and firefighter so money will be coming in! Thanks!
Post # 6
Don’t worry about the youre so young comments! I hate when people say that ( I don’t get it because im 25 now lol oldddd!!) Anyway. Good luck and I hope he pops the question soon!!
Post # 7
FutureMrs.browneyes–thanks 🙂 i think he will do it soon! I know him allllll too well 😉 haha